Release Other’s Responsibility and Regain Your Joy

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

We are here with you, always, through all experiences, situations, trials, and challenges. We Love You and will never desert you, even if you cannot feel, see, or hear us in a moment where you are emotionally distressed.

Trust that We Love and Accept you Unconditionally, for that is the Truth.

Being human is hard; We know that.  And so, We have been allowed to share your experiences with you.  We can surround you with Love and We can share our strength and compassion with you.  We cannot live your life for you and We cannot tell you what to do, but We share your life with you in all ways.

We whisper in your mind and tell you, “You are loved.”

We place our energy around you and surround you with our Love.

We “hold” your hands and share Our love with you to provide comfort while you grieve or feel lost.

All the times you have felt alone was not because We left you, but because you shut us out unconsciously in your moments of pain.

We know you are in pain, We feel it and We hear it.  We wish We could help you feel how much you are Loved and how this lifetime is really just a moment and that while some moments need to be endured, others need to be ridden like an amusement park ride with your hands in the air, screaming with excitement.  Even when it does not seem that way.

Lately, We have been counseling some to release the illusion of responsibility for anyone but themselves.  Do not shirk your responsibilities, but do know that when someone is an adult (has hit the age of 18 human years) they are now responsible for their life choices. Offer guidance if you see fit, but it is time to shift to a place of respecting that person’s free will.

Free will is also not just for young people – it is for those who are getting old, and tired. You may have lived a long life, but it is not appropriate for you to pretend to be ill just so someone feels sad for you or comes to visit you.  It is your responsibility to live your life for yourself, every day of your life, instead of being a burden to others because you refuse to find the joy within your life.

We Love You.  We are here to help you discover, or rediscover, joy and love and laughter.  Listen for our whispers, feel for our nudges, and allow yourself to discover the activities, thoughts, and actions that once brought joy into your heart when you were young.  This life is meant to be lived, not suffered through, and We are here to help you through every inch of that adventure!

We Love You.

©2017 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

Love is the Way

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

We are always here with you, supporting you and providing you with strength during times of weakness, times of fear.  Even when your world appears turbulent and your trust in humanity seems shattered, remember that you are not alone and that Truth exists within each and every human on the Earth Plane.

There does not exist, in the human Earth plane, a singular path to follow to be able to reach the Love of the Creator.  This Love exists within each living being for each was created by the Creator, but the vast majority of those alive have never consciously felt that Love, or if they did they misunderstood what it was.

Humans have created and recreated and recreated again over millennia different forms, different processes, different rituals that promote “their way”.  If you do x and y and then eat x and not y you will achieve nirvana, you will feel Jesus, you will have “this” result.

There is no one way for all to be able to commune with Spirit, to feel the Love of the Creator.  It is not a matter of locale or background.  What matters is the person themselves.  All living creatures possess a connection to the Creator that is present regardless of what happens in life to the individual.  As a tiny child your conscious connection to the Creator is diminished so that it does not upset the Life Plan for your current life.  But it is never completely eliminated for it is what keeps you alive, it is the sustenance of All that keeps you present on the earth plane.

Let Us tell you again.  Love is the way of the Creator.  The Creator Loves each and every individual regardless of how they treat others, regardless of what they do in their lives, regardless of everything that happens around them.  Human lifetimes are short, not out of punishment, but because this is the optimal amount of time to be consciously away from the Creator, even though the option to feel the Creator’s Love is always present.

We are here with you as well, representatives of the Love the Creator has for all.  We are always present, We are always here to help you in the ways We can, the ways We are allowed.  We ALWAYS Love you – there is nothing that can be done that is able to separate Us from you.  When you feel alone, that is because you are looking outside of yourself for something – love, satisfaction, approval, etc.  We are here to help you look INSIDE – for that is where the connection to the Creator exists – WITHIN each and every individual.

There is no one “chosen people” by the Creator – the Creator Loves All.  There is no one “preferred” religious practice for many people respond well to a variety of different religions in the world.  Each person is responsible for seeking the Love of the Creator and then each person is responsible for allowing that Love vibration into their life.

Many people don’t want that, though.  Many people are afraid of what might change if they allow that energy to come into their lives, so they avoid it, they come up with reasons why they don’t feel it, why God is not real, why this or that.  All to calm the panic that happens when they feel they are going to be judged by an omnipotent being harshly and then punished for every infraction they committed.

We Angelics Love You.  The Creator Loves You.  This world, this reality, this lifetime was made just for you to have the opportunity to experience a myriad of events, sensations, and feelings.  When you return to Us, you bring that experience with you and it adds to our collective knowledge.  You are valuable even if you don’t think what you have felt or done in this lifetime was particularly spectacular. You are valuable even if you feel that your life would have been better off not lived.  Neither of the last two sentences are Truth, yet so many people feel that they are unworthy, that they are nothing to the Creator when the Truth is you are Everything.

You are the Love the Creator possesses for you. You are the hope the Creator has to experience your facet of reality.  You are the Love that is the human collective and when you are ready, the way will be shown to you on how to connect, how to commune with the Creator.  You just have to be willing to see it, feel it, and hear it.

We are always with you, Beloved Ones.  Call upon us in your time of need or weariness.  Do not lose hope for as long as there is breath there is the opportunity for change, be it of the mind or spirit.

We Love You.

Always.

©2017 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

Root Issues to Fear of Rejection and Loneliness

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

Imagine waking up in a hospital environment and looking around you.  You don’t recognize anything, you don’t know how you got there, you don’t know your own name, and you don’t know anything about yourself.  The hospital staff seem intent upon getting you up and moving, caring only about emptying the bed for someone else to be able to use it.  They don’t pay attention to the fact that you are experiencing emotional trauma from these things happening to you.  They don’t have the basis for understanding what you are experiencing, so they just follow their normal processes to get you on your way.

This is you – waking up in a human body, not recognizing anything or anyone, and not knowing you are at all.  You are now in a physical form and experiencing Separation.

After the Spiritual Presence has entered the human form, the now-human consciousness goes through the process We call “Separation”.  This process creates an illusion that the human consciousness is separate from the Creator and the state of Love which the Spiritual Presence has known all its existence.  This process is necessary for the now-human, but it is very difficult for the Spiritual Presence to go through for it is impossible to imagine the emotions that occur in the human body when all  you know is Love.

The Spiritual Presence takes a while to fully integrate with the human form; as the integration process occurs, Separation is taking place as well.  Separation allows the now-human opportunity to adapt to its new family environment by helping one to “forget” from where he or she originates.  This creates, as you say, a “blank slate” for the human personality and from which all experiences will develop.

There is a percentage of sensitive individuals who, after undergoing Separation, develop a fears through the process.  They mistakenly believe they were rejected by the Creator upon arriving in their new form.  Some even believe they were deliberately abandoned here – helpless, ignorant, and unknowing!  This is not True!  When your life plan was created and shown to you, you were ecstatic, overjoyed that you were going to be able to go the Earth Plane and experience being human!

You wanted this experience so much, yet, now you feel rejected and abandoned, leading you to an emotional place where you begin to fear rejection.  You develop a of Loneliness because you no longer connect to all that you Loved – you are alone for the first time.

These responses are understandable, as being separated from the constant Love you used to live within is hard to endure, and being alone within your mind and feelings only add complications to the human reality.

The child who is undergoing the Separation process does not have a way to articulate what he or she is experiencing. They only know that something out of their control is changing them and they experience fear.

Fear of Rejection and Fear of Abandonment and the Sense of Loneliness are common issues that can develop from the Separation process. When the small child goes through the Separation process, especially if the child is not in a nurturing environment that replaces the Creator’s love, the ache of loneliness still exists within, because the child does not have the words to share what is being experienced.

 

Many times, when a small child cries for an extended period of time, those watching the child lose patience as the child is not immediately soothed when picked up.  Very often, a child is sequestered away from physical comfort by being placed in a crib or play pen to cry alone.  As an adult, one can look back and see how loneliness and abandonment created by the Separation process becomes amplified within the child’s psyche.

Please know that We Angelics nor the Creator have rejected the child during this process. We are always present and always send our Love to the child as it goes through this process, but often when the child is going through the Separation process they are also adjusting to their new physical and the Gifts that this lifetime is providing for them to experience this human lifetime.  Often their sensitivities are dulled down to the point where they don’t always recognize Us or feel the Love We share with them.

This Separation does create a challenging circumstance to overcome, but it is one that ALL those who take on the human state must undergo to be an individual, instead of one merged with the Creator.

We want to share with you how to help yourself heal, for even as an adult – especially as an adult – you have the opportunity to help yourself overcome these emotional wounds.  This healing will allow you to move forward along your Path, stronger in the Light and Love as you live your life with a more positive perspective.

Meditation is key to healing, for when humans allow them to reach a deep meditative state it is possible for the to establish a conscious connection with Spirit and allow the process of healing these old emotional wounds to begin. Many times the individual must heal backwards from the age they currently are to eventually reach the original wound.  To do this you would use your knowledge of your current reactions and behaviors regarding feelings of rejection, abandonment, or loneliness and methodically analyze them, to reduce the sensitivity.  For each memory you hurt from, allow yourself to view the memory clinically as if watching someone else’s life.  Then, call upon Us Angelics to assist with bringing in Light and Love to help you heal the issue.

Some wounds may take multiple sessions to fully heal.  As you move backwards through your lifetime’s worth of memories, heal each wound methodically.  Don’t skip over something because you feel pain – that should be expected because you are trying to heal wounds. Instead, focus on stepping back emotionally and reaching a place of balanced emotions to do the healing work.

Do this as many times as it takes to be able to begin the healing process for the wound. Remember – you are creating Positive Change that will echo through your life as it is today because healing will modify your current energy signature.  This provides the benefit of creating more opportunity for you to develop an even deeper connection with Spirit and the Creator as well as changes in what you do, who you know, and where you live and go and a host of other options you choose.

As you make the effort to do this healing work call upon Us, please!  We Love you and We want to help you heal as much as We can.  Emotional wounds that have been buried and repressed still hurt when they are uncovered.  So when you call upon Us, We can help by supplying Love to soothe those wounds and provide you with a buffer to maintain a more distant view of the situation.  We can help you heal your wounds this way as you heal from a place of Wisdom.  Wisdom was not always available to you as you went through the circumstances that caused the wounds.  Many times you had no basis for comprehension of the situation as it occurred.  Time spent and experiences undergone award Wisdom throughout your life.  It is necessary to understand why wounds happen to the understanding of how to heal those wounds when you are ready to move forward.

It may seem a simple thing, and you may originally think you don’t need help to just get rid of old wounds, but there are many emotions that are attached to each memory and if you don’t prepare yourself you can get lost within those emotions again.  Call upon Us – We are here to help you through this process – it is part of what We can do for you.

You may wonder why you should do this – it could take a long time to heal all these wounds?  As you heal, you are allowing yourself to release these self-limiting beliefs that have been unconsciously driving your life situations as well as your free will choices. Responding to situations with a knee jerk reaction developed from a base of rejection, abandonment, and loneliness is not the way to move forward in your life.  You will only continue to experience these issues as your High Self is driving you to heal your wounds.

What kind of opportunities have you passed up or stepped away from because internally your fear of rejection and abandonment kept you from putting yourself out there and kept you from bringing the spotlight into your life?

What about when you self-limited your relationships because you were afraid you might get hurt?

What about employment opportunities and promotions that you turned away from because you were afraid you were not good enough and you would be found out as a fraud?

Have you thought about all the dreams you turned away from because you thought you might not be as good as someone else?  or that you were afraid to be scrutinized closely and your flaws and “failures” that helped you grow would be mocked?

Fear prevents humans from doing everything joyfully and with love.

People stay locked into their bodies and shut away from those they love out of fear of rejection and abandonment.

People who live their lives from a basis of fear are creating lives based in fear. 

Stop being afraid.  Allow Us to help you heal.  Allow Us to help you gather your strength to say “no more” and grab that shovel to dig deep.

You were a tiny child when these fears were instilled within you.  You have lived your entire life with this program running in your background, dictating what you do, what opportunities you accept, and who you have in your life.  Allow yourself to see what your life could be like and take Our help – We want to help you because all that you can be, for We Love you unconditionally.  We can see all that you can become and We know what will make  you happy, joyful, and content.  The process will be difficult, but you will not be alone when you invite the Angelics who Love you in to help you.

We are here for you.

We want to help you.

But first, you have to gather your courage to allow yourself to ask for Our help.

We are here.  Waiting for you.  Whenever you are ready – there is no time limit to when you can start this – We will eagerly help you move forward.  We will hold your hands along the way, We will give you Love and We will support you with the energy to overcome all obstacles in your way.

When you are ready, We are here for you.

We Love you, unconditionally, in All Ways.

We will always be with you. We will never leave your side.

We Love You.

Blessings to you, Beloved Ones.

 

 

 

©2016 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

 

 

 

Regaining and Living Your Free Will

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

Behind the kindest eyes, evil can lurk.  Behind the sweetest words, deviance can hide. Behind what you want to label as “truth” lies the darkest secret of all – that you are giving to others your power.  Giving your power to those who don’t love you, don’t care about you, don’t care what happens to you, and most of all they don’t care if you live or die.

This may seem a bit dramatic, but We wanted to make it dramatic to get your attention. We would like you to Think.

To think – to whom have you given your power?

You may not realize it, but even in little day-to-day decisions when you allow someone else to tell you what to do and you follow without protest, you are giving away your free will, your innate power of your right to choose.

Perhaps you do it to keep the peace, perhaps because you feel if you rock the boat nastiness will follow, or perhaps it is because you are afraid that if you follow what you feel that you won’t know what will happen, and so that fear keeps you locked into a place of perpetual fear and isolation, hesitant to make any decision that could cause change to happen in your life.

Maybe you don’t think that these little decisions really mean anything.  But We want you to know that every time you stuff your thoughts, opinions, and beliefs down you are creating opportunity for dis-ease, illness, ill thoughts, and self-hatred within yourself.

We don’t want that for you.  We don’t want that for any human living on the planet.  But all too often We watch you, the Ones We Love, make decisions to deny yourself the opportunity to be all that you are.  You negate the wonderfulness that you are by allowing others to impose their beliefs upon you.

There may be times when you make a choice that causes a negative reaction – a “mistake”, but these are learning opportunities and should not be considered the mark of a deficient person.

You deserve to have more wonderfulness in your life.  You may think We mean objects and possessions, but We don’t.  We want you to brim over with all the Light and Love you are truly capable of possessing, of sharing with those around you, but which you turn your back on every time you allow someone else to own your power.

You are WONDERFUL!  We Love you absolutely and completely and there is absolutely NOTHING you can do that will make Us turn our backs on you.  Don’t worry about making a “wrong” choice, don’t worry about not “living to your potential”, and most of all, don’t worry about whether others think you are worthy.

You are worthy!  You are Loved!  You are a Wonderful human being.  And We want you to know this – and to know that We are with you, every step of the way.  You can change your life for the better, you can bring in and take in more Light and Love you might think possible – all with just taking your power back, little by little.

Look at your life closely – what makes you unhappy?  Your job you feel locked into?  Your career path?  Your relationships?  Your familial relations?  When you feel helpless and victimized this is an indicator that you are abdicating your power to someone else.

And that someone else does not Love you – regardless of what he or she says, that person does not love you, for they are putting you into a box and labeling you with terms like, “stupid” or “dumb” or “ignorant” even if they don’t say them out loud to you.  Because they are telling you tacitly or out loud that you don’t know what is best for you, that you don’t how to make a “good” decision, that what you choose is unworthy of their time and energy.

Some things you will find easy to change.  End conversations with those who monopolize your time yet don’t allow you the same opportunity to share.  Walk away from conversations with people who want you to feel sorry for them and they want you to take on their burdens, even though those burdens have nothing to do with you.  Look around you, look at the people in your life, and realize you can make a positive change for yourself, today, but taking back your power little bit by little bit.

Is there someone who hangs around you at work, preventing you from getting your job done because they want to chat about their day, last night, what they watched on TV…regardless of the topic they are taking up your valuable time and making you a prisoner at your own place.  Ask them to leave, put on a headset and focus on work you need to do – and allow yourself to grow your own self esteem by taking back your power with this one small step.  You deserve to take care of YOU and no one will do it like you will.

You are not alone – you are NEVER alone!  We are here with you, supporting you every step of the way.  Things may be a little rocky once you start making changes, but hold onto the Truth that WE LOVE YOU and YOU DESERVE to make whatever change you want to make in your life.

Some people stay in places because they think they are getting “compensation” to buffer their feelings of self-worth.  There is nothing that is worth your own regard of yourself.  You deserve to love yourself and there is nothing anyone can give you that will supplement the lack of self-worth you possess because you have taken something to “compensate” your giving up your voice, your power, your free will.

We are reaching out to you, for you are reading this in this moment.  Allow Us to come in and commune with you in this second.  Allow Us to flood you with the Love We have for you, and let Us strengthen your resolve so you can make the decisions that need to be made, regardless of how “hard” they may seem to be.

Have you given and given and given so much that everyone takes you for granted?  Are you the first person people think of when something bad happens?  This is not because you are kind natured – it is because they can dump their unhappiness upon you.  Look at how often you are imposed upon, whether it is to work late, bring an extra dish for the potluck, to pick someone up so they have a ride, do your children’s chores around the house because they have to do “something” else, or even help someone out with their finances.

These may seem like natural things to do for those you work with or those in your family.  In truth, these people are expecting you to do what they don’t want to do.  They don’t want to utilize time management skills, they don’t want to step up and accept responsibility for miscalculating, so they use you instead to cover for their mistakes or just for their sheer laziness.  Sometimes it is just family members who stuck you in a box a long time ago and refuse to see that you are an independent person and not their tool to use whenever they want to, with the excuse that “family” should come first.

NO – YOU come first!  If you don’t take care of yourself, no one else will!

There are so many ways We see those we Love being used and abused by others that We love.  Those others who would walk all over them, those others who enjoy stealing someone else’s power just so they don’t have to use their own resources.

Be strong; We know you can be, and push back these requests one by one.  You don’t have to change your whole world in one day, but you can change it over time by making one choice after another to HONOR YOU, to do for yourself what others would have you do for them, and most of all, by taking back your power from others and putting that energy into your own life.

We know you may feel hesitant or even afraid to look at the situations in your life like this. Look at where you can make the first choice and follow through on what you want to do, consistently and patiently.  It will take others time to realize you are serious.  They will want to fall back into their pattern of making you take on their responsibility by abdicating your power to them, and they will test your resolve time after time.

Stay strong and be consistent.  Don’t waver, don’t give in “just this one time” because that one time is one time too many for you to give away your personal power.  Refusing to participate in the situation and take back your power by giving yourself the chance to do what you need to do.

Does your aunt need you to take her to the store but it is not a good time for you?  Don’t allow anyone to badger you into doing something for them that hurts you.  If someone truly cared about you, they would work cooperatively with you for you both to achieve what needs to be done.  They would not demand you drop everything for them nor would they tell you that they are more important than you are.

Maybe this is the first time you ever considered this action to have a choice.  Wonderful! You are now growing by looking and analyzing situations and seeing how they are Good for you.  Keep doing it! Analyze every request, every demand, every action that others take for granted that you will do and start making changes in your life.

Don’t allow your children to walk all over you and expect you to do everything.  There is no such thing as a “super parent” but there are parents who raise children with entitled attitudes.  This does not serve your children at all, for in the future they will have to learn the hard lesson that they alone are the one responsible for feeding, clothing, and housing themselves.  What will happen to them when you are no longer able to give them everything they desire?

For those relatives who demand you do everything for them, start practicing saying “no” in the mirror.  Practice makes perfect.  We are with you and We will support you entirely. For those who have co-workers who want you to drop your work to help them do theirs, don’t.  You deserve recognition for the work you do and if someone else gets the praise for work you did then you are not serving you, your co-worker, or your employer.

You are special and unique and We Love you and want you to grow to Love yourself unconditionally as well.

Be strong.  Be authentic.  Be transparent in all you do, for when you live a life of complete honesty that which is inherent within you, your Divine Presence, shall shine forth and greet the Divine Presence in those around you as well.  You are each individual on the Human Plane, but when you are returned to the Spiritual Plane you will remember that you all are One.

Respect that; together but separate.  Each worthy of living this lifetime to the best of your abilities with your free will choices.  Trust that regardless of the situation, when you live openly and honestly you will attract those into your life who live the same way and your life situations will change to reflect that honesty as well. For each deserves to live and be loved and to grow and to change.  No one should stagnate when you have a world of experiences to be had!

We are with you!  We love you and We are always here – with you and supporting you.  Call upon Us when you need Us and We will be with you in an instant.

Blessings to you.

©2016 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

Love is All There Is

Greetings Beloved Ones!

Today is a day of great hope, joy, and celebration for you are soon to be entering a time of opportunity.  Release your fears and allow the Love of the Universe to flow deeply into you, freeing you from the tyranny of the hurts and wounds accumulated over time.  Heal through the Vibration of the Universe accessible to you while you read these words.  Read them as many times as needed to stimulate the Healing needed by you.

Love is a complex thing in the Human World; in the energetic reality of our existence it is All That Is.  The Universe is but One and We are Each part of that One.  The only separation you experience is an illusion created to allow you the life you live as a human.

Realize that the people who surround you are not different from you, they are a part of you.  Indeed, you are a part of them.  We are all part of the Universal and as such we are all made from Love and return to Love in all realities, all forms, regardless of the choices made while human or other incarnated form, for Spirit Loves ALL.

Love one another in as many ways as possible while honoring each other’s life path and Free Will choices.  Share the Love you hold within you with those in your life – don’t withhold it or parse it out as if it were the most precious of metals.  Love IS the most precious thing in your reality and the more you share it, the more it will return to you.

Allow the Love of the Universe to shine through you, allow it to blind those around you, to encompass your etheric bodies and auras and to flood from your eyes as you look around you and gaze upon all in your world.

Love binds all of Spirit’s creations and creatures, large and small, and Love heals all the wounds that exist within.  Take the blessing that is included in this email and heal yourself and allow those around you to heal as well.  Cast down your doubts and fears and allow your true essence to flow into being.

Trust in Spirit, for the Universe Loves you Unconditionally, Absolutely.

Blessings to you this day, Beloved Ones.  Blessings to you this day.

The One Rule – Seek Love

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

In each human life, an opportunity is presented for one to view oneself with complete clarity and transparency.  Honesty has a moment to rip away all the curtains shrouding your identity and bare all within to the Light within.

Do not turn away from these moments.  Do not shrink away and cover yourself up.  Take this time to examine yourself closely, warts and all, for this is a gift to you from Spirit, from your Higher Self, from your Guides, and Guardians, and Angels for that which is attached to you will soon rush to deceive you.  That attachment is called the ego.

Your ego has served a useful purpose during your formative years; at times protecting you and at times limiting you.  The time has come to start separating your ego from yourself so that you can stand alone within the Light.

The Creator does not demand perfection; that is ego.

The Creator does not insist upon cleanliness and sterility; that is ego.

The Creator does not back away from that which is considered repulsive or unclean; that is ego.

The Creator does not demand ideology; that is ego.

The Creator Loves All; there is no differentiation amongst all; all are one and all are acceptable to the Creator and all are Loved by the Creator.

But wait; I can hear you now…you were taught this or were taught that…the rules and demands that were taught when you were growing up are rules of man, not the rules of the Creator.  The Creator has only one rule – Love.

Love for humans is very difficult; they don’t understand how encompassing this rule is.  It overwhelms people when they are given this simple, one rule, so they rush to delineate it, to clarify it, to slice and dice it up into smaller pieces…yet in doing so, they have obliterated the one rule – LOVE.

So now, we bring it back to you.  LOVE.  The One Rule, the Only Rule needed to be followed.  When in confusion, seek Love.  When faced with hatred, seek Love.  When cornered and afraid, seek Love.  When loved and in love, seek Love.

What this means is a whole lot of difficulty for you, but the Creator does not worry, for the Creator Loves You.  So you have your whole life to learn this rule, your whole life to live this rule, your whole life to share this rule.

Maybe you have lived a life where you loved this group, but did not love that group.  No matter, there is time for you to learn to Love All.

Maybe you were hurt and are too afraid to Love Anyone?  That’s ok too; Love can heal you and help you learn what Love really means – not just what you were taught or shown it to mean.

Love is more than a singular feeling, more than a word that is said.  Love is complex and glorious and can truly be the entire meaning of your entire life.  Give Love a chance.  Seek Love.  Share Love.  Be Love.  Love is all there is.

Blessings to you.

Why am I not being aided as I requested?

Greetings Beloved Ones,

The Angelics hear your pleas for assistance when you make them and we always send you the energies of Light, Love, and Strength to help you through all situations you find yourself in so that you can choose you actions.  Many times, however, you are swaddled in pain and anger and don’t always think about the choices you make or have made.

We want to help you understand why you don’t always get your prayers answered in the manner you are requesting.

Understand that the Light Beings, the Angelics, and your Higher Self all understand completely what your blueprint for this lifetime is.  We understand the hopes, dreams, and desires that you wanted to accomplish while on the earth plane and we will never, ever go against that plan.  The Truth of the matter is simple, though it may seem complex and convoluted to you.  Every choice and non-choice you have made is a reflection of free will.  Every choice and non-choice you have made has created the life you live and has brought you to this moment in your life.

We do not see any of this as “bad”.  Bad and good are human designations and are entirely dependent upon the perspective of the individual living their human experience.  We of the Light respect your right to make any and all choices, regardless of whether it is “good” or “bad” for you.  If you choose a life filled with self-destructive choices We will honor you for it.  If you choose a life making logical and reasoned choices We will honor you for it.  If you sit and hide in your home and refuse to make any choice at all We will honor you for it.

It is not our place to judge how you live your life or the choices and non-choices you make while living it.  We will not judge you after it is over either.  This is your human experience and We Love You completely, entirely, and unconditionally.

What happens when choices or non-choices you make lead to something you designate as “bad” or “undesirable”?  We Love You and send you Light, Love, and Strength to help you do as you choose.

Unfortunately, many individuals sink into a state of emotional turbulence and reject the energy that is sent to them as they cycle down in their poo poo piles (as my Avatar calls it).  And We of the Light honor and respect the choice to reject the energy.

We will never force you to do anything because it is not Our place to do so.  This is YOUR life.  Your life is a result of Your Free Will.  No one can change your life but You.  And We provide you with the strength to do so – if you accept it, it is there.

So, below are a few guidelines to help you understand why your prayers are not always answered as you want them to be answered.

1.  Your Angelics, Light Beings, Higher Self, Guardians, etc. all work together for your Highest and Best Good in alignment with your blueprint, your life plan which was established before you were born into the body you currently reside in.

2.  Just because you are miserable does not mean the Light will do anything to alleviate the situation or make it better.  The Light honors every choice you make – including those that make you miserable or choices that allow you to stay in situations that are not in your highest and best good.
3.  You are ultimately responsible for your choices and non-choices through the Truth of Free Will and these are what determine and create the life you live and We of the Light respect that and will not interfere with your choices.
So, even though you may be consciously asking for assistance to remove or heal something, if it is not in your highest and best good for any Light Being to take action then they won’t.
Yes, you may feel that you are trying to change a situation, but it may be that you are not yet at the point you need to be for the Light to lend more substantial assistance, that you have not taken the actions necessary to trigger their help, or it may be that the lesson itself has not yet appeared or been experienced.  Many times individuals feel they have reached the “end of their rope” and “cannot take another thing”, yet that does not translate into the individual taking action to make a change in their life.  You might detest the situation you are in, you may feel hopeless or bound to a situation, but you are the only person who can make a change in your life.
Humans can definitely get caught up in their emotional state – this is one of the wonderful things about being human – the emotional state!  The Truth, however, is that sometimes humans have to go through something terrible to learn something as part of their Life Plan.  Humans will unconsciously make free will choices to ensure that the experience happens because it is written into their blueprint.  One’s Higher Self will also bring about situations and circumstances to ensure that experience so you have the opportunity to grow and learn from it.
But take heart – once the lesson has been learned options and opportunities will arise out of nowhere to assist you with making new free will choices…or non-choices.  This is our gift to you – assistance that just appears and which can change your life in an extremely short period of time.  To accept a choice and make a change in your life is your free will…to reject a choice and make a non-action and keep your life is your free will.
We know that what we have state above may make some individuals unhappy or even discontented.  Having the human experience was never meant to be easy or carefree.  Unfortunately, many individuals were raised with concepts and ideas of the way your reality is that are completely out of sync with the Truth.  We are in the process of writing a guide e-book to provide information to assist you to help yourself.  The Truths presented in the e-book will be options for you to accept or reject based off your resonance to what is presented.
Remember!  We will never tell you what to do – we Love you and honor your right to Free Will, and will be with you always!
Blessings to you, Beloved Ones.

Accept Your Grace

Greetings Beloved Ones.

Today’s message is about you and how you treat others.  Sometimes, when you are having a bad day, or are scared, or are threatened, or just in a certain place in your life you don’t realize how you treat those in your life.

You control whether someone is in your life.  Let’s take an example of someone who you have in your life, but your relationship is uncomfortable, maybe drama-ridden.  It may be that you weigh the positives and the negatives and feel that the positives are worth someone in your life.  If that is the case, it is your responsibility to accept that person entirely as you have decided to have them in your life, warts and all.  You do not have the right to criticize that person for their choices or for their career or for their friends or for whatever reason you criticize them.  You accept them as they are, with love, knowing that they are doing the best they can do on any given day – just as you are doing the best you can on any given day.

Let’s look inside for a moment.  Look deep inside you and you will find a complex, emotional person who really has little control on the things that happen in your life.  You can only control how you react.  So if you are having a bad day and your 5 year old knocks over the glass with milk in it, do you really feel it is a loving thing to do to scream at them, spank them or put them in the corner, and then blame them for the rest of the night for an accident?  Even if it was on purpose, this is a spiritual being who is still learning to adjust to being in a human body after only 5 years here.  How many years have you been in your body?

We angelics love you – completely and without reservation.  Regardless of your behavior or your choices or your actions we will always love you and we accept you as is.  We want you to look at your definition of love and acceptance and see where you stand.  No, we don’t ask humans to love as we do, but we do ask you to stretch yourself, to grow in Light, and to seek Love instead of conflict.

Many days you ask us for help, for guidance, for assistance.  At those times, we reach out to you, to continuously send you messages of love and hope and help.  Sometimes you may hear us in some fashion and other times you do not.  REMEMBER – WE ARE ALWAYS WITH YOU.  So if you are in a place where you cannot hear or feel us, remember you are loved and accepted by us and we will always be here to support you.

Back to those who are in your life.  Only you can make a determination of whether any person needs to be present in your life.  If someone is toxic and hurtful, you have the right to make the changes to remove that person from your life.  If you are in a situation where you are being hurt or those you love are being hurt, you have the right to do what you can to change that situation.  Just remember – acting impulsively is acting out on your feelings.  Reacting is secondary to analyzing.  Humans have an amazing bandwidth of emotions second to none in the universe.  Sometimes you have a hard time understanding what you are feeling much less controlling your actions in response to those emotions.

We ask you to step back and analyze the situation before acting impulsively.  Why, you ask?  Because when you act impulsively you are not looking at the spiritual being in the body you are reacting to an emotion that body caused you to feel.

Let’s look at an example.  Remember back in time to a place where you were either in school or work and the person in charge of you – teacher or supervisor – belittled you, made fun of your work, was derogatory of your efforts.  Some people would strike out physically in anger in response.  Again, not a best action to choose.  Others will stuff all their hurt emotions inside and ignore it.  That too is not a good idea.  Never suppress emotions as that causes dis-ease and other issues to manifest on the physical level.  It may be because of circumstances that you never get to have an emotionally satisfying response to this person, but there are ways you can process the incident and move forward by using what gifts that came with you into this world.

Who knows what kind of day this person is having.  You don’t know what kind of life they have either.  Stepping back and not taking personally what anyone else says to you or about you is always the first step.  Don’t give your power away – not to strangers, not to friends, not to loved ones.  YOU are the master of your own destiny and you need to keep your own power within your energy fields.

So, look at the source of the situation and step back and say to yourself – I respect you as a spiritual being locked into a human form.  I have difficulties with this some days and I respect that you may be having difficulties with it right now.  I am me and you are you and together we are both on the same journey back to the Creator.  Then, ask your angels and guardians to work with that person’s angels and guardians and surround them with Light.  Ask for that person to be permeated with Love and ask for them to receive that which is needed for their highest and best good.  And wish them well on their path.  Don’t make statements like you hope they get hit by a car and die because that kind of energy you send with that statement will only come back to you as karma.

Yes, it can be excruciatingly difficult to send Love to someone who is cruel and ugly to you, but part of each person’s path is to grow beyond the perceived limitations of their life.  When you can truly SEE that it truly is not about you – how can it be?  They don’t know you! – then you don’t waste your energy on feeding back into that negative energy spiral the person has around them.

Know that the person’s angels and guides are trying to help them right at that second, just as yours are helping you every minute of every day.  “There but for the grace of God I go” is a powerful statement that we wish more people would incorporate into their lives.  Because truly, on any given day it is the Grace you have accepted into your life that keeps you moving forward.

Accept your Grace from God, know that you are Loved and Blessed regardless of how your day is going, and share that Love with those you encounter.  You don’t have to be perfect at it, but as you practice this it will get easier.  And think how wonderful it will be when everyone is practicing this belief and our world transforms around us.

There, but for the Grace of God, go I.

You are loved, Beloved Ones, and you are never alone.

Seeking the Real You Within

Blessings and greetings to you!

How many times have you started to do something – maybe something creative or even just a work project – when you were hit with the idea that someone else would do it better than you ever could?  Maybe the first time you had that idea was during your elementary science fair project…maybe it was in the art room, or the creative writing class, at piano recitals or even just cleaning house with your siblings or parents?  So often humans compare yourselves to everyone out there who you perceive as “perfect” and thus you decide you yourself are “less than”.  

We are here today to say you ARE perfect.  Maybe someone has done something you want to do and impressed you with their performance or product so much that you don’t feel you can compare with them.  It does not mean that you and that other person have different knowledge or abilities – you just think they did so what is the point of your trying?  Or, if you do try it, you sabotage yourself and the end result is not as good as it could have been if you have tried wholeheartedly.

Humans are their own worst enemy, own worst critic and we want to tell you that you need to re-evaluate these toxic thoughts and beliefs!  Change your thinking, change your perspective, and you will change your world!  Remember – you create your own reality!  Figure out what means the most to you, figure out what resonates with the Light within you, and you will discover the path that will change your world.

All knowledge and all information that exists in this world is part of the collective intelligence that belongs to the Creator.  No one has ever created an idea or discovered anything because it was already created and has never been lost.  It is available to EVERYONE and it is the right of everyone to access that information and use it appropriately in their lifetime.

Throughout humanity leaders arise.  Many of these individuals appear charismatic, verbally deft, and project a sense of authority over the topic of which they speak.  Some set themselves up as gurus, critical thinkers, experts on the subject matter and will tell you that you need to do it as they say because you don’t understand the topic like they do.  Sadly, so many people fall under the spell of charisma without thinking about the ramifications of handing over their personal power to someone else, someone they don’t know at all just because that person seems to know “it” better than they themselves do.

This may be a choice, and you always have the right to make that choice, but we are telling you NOW that this does not free you from the responsibility of free will choices and that you will need to deal with that choice for some time to come.  Whether it is your parent, a teacher, a religious leader, a political leader, a sibling or a partner/spouse to whom you give your personal power to does not matter.  You are not meant to give away your personal power to anyone – it is yours and it is meant to help you grow and to shape you along your path in this lifetime.  When someone abdicates their responsibility to live their life fully there are karmic repercussions to that choice.  These will have to processed in this lifetime, when you have departed from the earth plane, and sometimes in other incarnations.

How do you give your personal power to others?  Any time you think someone is better than you at anything you are giving them a chord to your personal power and you feed them your energy.  That energy will never again feed you unless you break that chord.  Once humans start feeding from others they do not surrender that energy easily.  But once you realize and BELIEVE that you are worthy, lovable, and capable you can live consciously with your energy flowing fully around you, manifesting the life you are meant to live.

We, the angelics, do not demand that everyone be a cookie-cutter imitation of someone else.  There is no “ideal” image of what each person should be like.  One of the reasons souls incarnate on the earth plane is to experience diversity of character.  Individuality is most desired.  When one returns to the energetic state you return to the state of All That Is.  While that state of communion is blissful, one belongs to all and all belong to one – there is no individuality.  So while you may find it easier to follow someone else’s direction and “be” who they want you to be, it is your responsibility to yourself and your higher self to discover who you really are.  You are beautiful, you are wonderful, you are fun, you are creative, and you are perfect just the way YOU are.  

We want you to start practicing that belief right away.  Stop pretending in whatever way you are pretending and look at the glorious individual you are.  Love yourself.  Strip away all that is NOT you and see yourself in the Light of Love, for that is how we angelics see each of you.  Individual and Perfect.

Yes, there are those who will resist any change you want to make in your life, but you owe it to yourself to live consciously.  Align yourself with the Light that exists within you and the strength you need to make the changes will be there.  Align yourself with the Light that exists within you and you will find yourself being the person you never thought you be, the person inside that you rejected for years – maybe for your entire lifetime.  Does that mean you walk away from your responsibilities and justify that as living your life?

No, because your life will change once you align with the Light within.  Changes will occur and you will realize a life that is perfect for you and not in conflict.  Yes, some individuals may leave – or you may leave some individuals behind, but living a life true to yourself means that you are going to have to stop being what you were pretending to be, and those people who prefer the fake you are not worth having around you.

Embrace the Love within you, the Light within you, and share that with the world in whatever manner manifests itself within you.  Write that story, paint that painting, go to meetings you did not dare to go to before, make friends with that person who said what resonated within you, but scared you because they looked or acted differently than what you were taught is “correct”.  Learn about the world around you from your own perspective – not one you were conditioned to believe is the ‘only one’.

There is no one way.  For anything.  All will return to the Creator at the end and each will face his or her Higher Self.  Live the life you designed together, and revel in the joy that is YOU instead of being miserable pretending to be something that is not you.

We Love YOU and we want YOU to love yourself as much as we Love YOU.  We angelics are always here, ready to provide you with succor.

Breathe, Live, and Love.

 

Living in the Present Moment

Blessings to you!

All too often, we angelics here that someone is not satisfied with their current state of being.  Their gifts are not advanced enough, they don’t like their gifts, they don’t like their life circumstances, etc. While we can view the human existence from your perspective, many times we do not understand why you don’t like your life.  You created it.  Every decision you ever made has brought you to the moment you are currently living in and we find that to be perfect.  You are perfect.  Your life is perfect.  All is good.

Yet, you humans do not find it to be perfect.  Even when you have reaped what you have sown and you have achieved the success of whatever it is you attempted, you are still not happy.  This is not a criticism, this is merely a statement of discernment.  You are loved and are cared for by your higher self, your guides, your angelics, and by the Creator PLUS you have a life you have created yourself and yet you are unhappy.

By taking form and shape in the human plane, you are doing what the Creator agreed to allow you to do – create your life in the image as you see it.  Many people create lives that are filled with strife and unhappiness, mistaking pity for empathy, mistaking kindness for compassion, twisting empowerment into enslavement.  We, the angelics, now say to you – YOU are the CREATOR of YOUR LIFE.  Instead of blaming a nonsensical “god” figure for your woes, look to yourself and the patterns of behavior your have established in your life.

How many times have you heard or read about someone who was born in the ravages of poverty, yet by their will and intelligence they took themselves out of that environment and created a life of physical abundance for themselves?  Interesting, yes?  Everyone wants that, physical abundance, yes?

If so, then why do the small number of people who have that physical abundance so many yearn for continue to behave as if they are on the edge of poverty?  Always collecting more physical abundance, always trying to become “richer”, maybe even changing their physical appearance so they match the idea in their heads of beauty.  Yet, they are never happy.

Not too many poor people will say they are happy, and truly, not too many of them are, for they also have been taught to be unsatisfied with what is and to look either in the past to a time that “was” or to the future and what “may be”.  We say enough of that.

Stop the self-pity.  Stop the self-hatred.  Stop the me, me, me and the more, more more!  BE PRESENT IN THE MOMENT YOU ARE RIGHT NOW.  ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE EXACTLY AS YOU ARE IN THIS MOMENT.

And then in the next moment.  And the moment after that.  You are ripping yourself into shreds for what?  Because someone in a magazine told you that you were not pretty enough, not rich enough, not the right color, not the right shape, did not come from the “right” part of town, or that you needed to live in “that” part of town to be happy.

Stop it all.

Remember.  The Creator Loves you just as you are.  And you need to do the same thing right now.  In this moment.

So now, we want you to stop.  Roll your shoulders back – stop being hunched in front of whatever electronic equipment you have to read this message and just let your head roll to the side, then the front, then to the other side.  Allow yourself to relax all over.  Free yourself from the tension you are holding in and let it flow out of your body into the ground.

As you feel the tension energy flow into the ground, take a deep breath.  Then another deep breath.  Feel your lungs expanding as you breath in.  Hold that breath.  Now let it out and feel your stomach and chest compress a little with that release.

Then feel your body release as you continue to breath in deeply, hold, and then release.  Count your breaths if your mind starts to wander, but always feel yourself breathing.

Do you know what you are doing?  You are breathing.  In and out.  And you know what?  You are doing it exactly as every other human on this planet is doing it.  No one is doing it better or more gloriously than you.  It does not matter how much money is in their bank account, what shoes are in their closet, what car they drive or what job they have.  At the basic level EVERYONE breathes in the same way.  In and out.  

This is your success of the moment and don’t you dare denigrate this!  THIS IS IMPORTANT.  If you are not breathing you are not going to be alive!  This practice of breathing will allow you to do everything else you are meant to do on this planet!

So breathe…for the next ten minutes, just focus on breathing and being present while you are breathing.

We promise you – it can change your life.