We Love You Always

Greetings Beloved Ones!

We greet you with Light and Love and ask you to receive now the Highest Vibration of Love the Angelics can send to you, through the blessings and Grace of the Creator.

We were approached this week with the denouncement that it is a lie that everything happens for a reason.  The thought frame behind the decision it was a lie was that if the Creator truly loved everyone he/she would not allow pain and suffering to happen.

We have touched before on this thought frame, but We angelics would like to address it again. Human life is not designed to be “paradise”.  You left a state of love and joy to come to the earth plane for an experience of relatively short duration to experience all emotions and experience many different opportunities.  Sometimes these opportunities are viewed negatively, as they may cause one to feel sensations and emotions that, through a particular perspective, are viewed as pain.

The Creator gave humans on this plane of existence the opportunity to feel the most extensive range of emotions of all the lifeforms the Creator brought into life.  The Creator views these emotions as a blessing – not a curse and not a punishment.

When your life leads you into a path where you may suffer pain on the physical or emotional level, this does not mean that you “deserved to be hurt”; and it certainly does not mean that you should choose the path of the victim.  Emotions should be honored and each person should allow themselves time to process the emotional and physical situation that one finds oneself in.  But there is a difference between processing and wallowing.

Some humans have a tendency to wallow in their experience, never pulling themselves out of their pity poo poo pile and looking at their life and situation with the eyes of clarity.  Humans create their own reality and thus everything does happen for a reason.  It just may be a reason that is not immediately clear to the one experiencing the situation.

Many times we Angelics are called upon for assistance to obtain this or that.  Many times it is for us to find a way to funnel wealth, success, and love to people.  Of course, We don’t do this because it is not our place to change one’s life.  We provide love and support to you each, of course, and we always help provide the energy for you to make change happen in your life – but we will never do it for you.

If you have a guide who says they can make it happen, please call upon my brother Michael to rid yourself of the demon attached to you.

Many times humans experience loss, betrayal, and pain because another human has decided to act in a way that results in a way one would not choose.  If one shifts his or her perspective to accept that each person has the right to live his or her life as they choose and not strictly to benefit one, it is easier to accept the changes that happen easily and effortlessly.

Undo attachment upon other’s choices and other’s lives impact your ability to live your life to the fullest ability.  Each human should focus their love of their own life through meditation and use the energy to manifest that which is in their highest and best good in their life.  Yes, change will happen as a result, but when the dust settles you will find that you are in a much happier place as you will be in alignment with your higher self and your blueprint for this lifetime.

Remember – all change is not shouldered alone.  We angelics are here for you during all your days and nights.  You are never alone and when you feel fearful or anxious, call upon us and we will surround you with the love and support we can provide.

Take a moment now, while reading these words, and do just that.  Close your eyes and call upon your angelics, guides, and guardians to surround you with the love and light of the Creator.  Breathe the love and light in and allow it to ease your anxiety, ease your suffering, ease your loneliness.  You are not alone and you are not unloved.

Change is never insurmountable.  Sometimes extreme discomfort is required because you have entrenched yourself into your life ‘as is’ and you need a ‘rude awakening’ moment to help you realize that you are not living your life in alignment with the Creator and your higher self.

When you find yourself shifting into a place of self pity, remember you are not alone.  We are here with you.  Call upon us to help you during this time.  We can help you shift your perspective and help you see the patterns of your life that you live that create negative events.  The Angelics will never lock you into a place of suffering – you put yourself into that place of suffering.  We Angelics are here to help you shift out of that dark place and into a place of love and light.

Always remember we are here for you at all times but most especially when your life feels dark and desolate.  Regardless of what else you may feel or hear we NEVER desert you.  You must reach through the walls of pain to us and we will meet you as soon as you open your mind to the idea that we are there.  Regardless of what you are experiencing – pain, depression, suicidal thoughts, inflicting pain upon yourself – we are here.  And we love you just as you are and we love you for all that you can be.  We will never give up on you and we will provide you with the shelter available to you through the love of the Creator.

And if you are having a wonderful life we are also here with you.  We love you – regardless of the life you experience, always.

Blessings to you!

Giving Away Your Power Is Not Good

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

When you sit in contemplation today, look closely at your life.  All that you are and all that you have and do is a result of your personal choices and non-choices.  You are surrounded by the creation of your reality and it is a lovely thing.  Even if you don’t like your life, change is imminent should you choose a different choice now.  Few beings possess such control over their life and as such free will is important to your life.

There are many beings that exist outside of the earth realm; many are Light Beings who have ascended from their own realities and are on a path to help others gain knowledge and to grow beyond their limitations.  There are others, though, who have merely surpassed the technology and construction that surrounds their and your realities.  When you encounter these beings, many try to pass themselves off as higher beings, portraying their intentions to you as them merely trying to help you help yourself or to help humanity grow.

It is helpful for you to understand that discernment is very important as many of you are quite open to the suggestion that there are those “out there” who want to help.  Discernment is not judgment, but it will provide you with a basis to make a decision.

Do these beings offer help or advice or are they merely providing emotional support?
Light Beings 100% in Alignment with your Highest and Best Good and 100% in Alignment with the Creator in Alignment with the Creator will not tell you what to do and will not try to make you behave in any way.  Respect for Free Will is paramount and any being that tries to convince you to take any course of action is not a Being of Light in Alignment with the Creator.

Do these beings say they are coming in to raise the vibration of the planet to help you?
The earth plane was created by the Creator and you inhabit the earth plane because your Higher Self chose this lifetime for you.  Many things that are taking place on the earth right now are stimuli to help individuals grow.  If someone says they are coming in to raise the vibration or to help humanity get past a certain “point”, ask is that not like cheating on a test?  If the point of the stimuli is to give people a kick in the pants to help them become Aware, is not accepting someone else to take on the responsibility of change actually giving them your own power and you taking a back seat?

There are many forms of detritus that exist on this plane of existence right now; they have been built into the “system” to help humanity grow and expand the consciousness.  Many of them are quite good at lying, telling people exactly what they want to hear, and they can project emotions that make them seem sincere and truthful.  But within a short period of time the suggestions and ideas from these detrimental entities turn from good into bad and extracting yourself becomes quite difficult. Sometimes the price you pay for making those decisions is extremely high and can cost you family, friends, and your life even.

It is not our intention to tell you what to do in these scenarios.  Our intention is only to place the idea of discernment forward and center so that you have something to balance against encouragement from an outside source.  Always, always, always look at the motivations behind any suggestion. Light Beings 100% in Alignment with your Highest and Best Good and 100% in Alignment with the Creator will not suggest actions, they respect a person’s Free Will.  So, if a purported Being of Light suggests you take an action, think twice.  If they suggest an action that benefits you but takes away from someone else, think carefully about why you are engaging in conversation with this Being.

Do you really think a Light Beings 100% in Alignment with your Highest and Best Good and 100% in Alignment with the Creator would really encourage you do to something that would harm anyone in any way?

If something benefits you but requires you give your power to them, do you really think a Light Beings 100% in Alignment with your Highest and Best Good and 100% in Alignment with the Creator would suggest that?

Remember – this is your incarnation, your lifetime to experience and even should you choose to do either of the above, Light Beings 100% in alignment with your Highest and Best Good and 100% alignment with the Creator will not try to stop you.  We Love you and Support you regardless of what action you take or do not take.  We will never tell you what to do or not do because each of you has Free Will and we want you to live your life in accordance with that Free Will.  We will not stop you from giving away your Personal Power and we will not think less of you for doing so.  Our Love is Unconditional, Unswerving, and Unending and we will be here with you always.

Living One’s Life with Free Will

Greetings Beloved Ones,

We have touched upon the topic of Free Will previously, but we are going to address the concept again as it is a very important idea that cannot be understood too deeply.

Free Will is the intrinsic right of each being on the earth plane to make choices or non-choices as the person decides.  Each lifetime is written and directed by the choices or non-choices made by the individual and that person bears the responsibility of the choices and non-choices made.

One brings many different things into each lifetime.  Each lifetime is different; one’s higher self develops the blue print for this lifetime and so different factors affect each lifetime.  Whatever those factors are, whatever goals for learning and growth and enlightenment may exist, the most important factor in your lifetime is that of Free Will.

Some are confused at the idea of non-choice.  Some insist that when presented with intolerable situations how can they be held responsible for the outcomes of what occurred?  Were they supposed to die instead of suffering through a situation?  How would death benefit them?

Your societies on earth have made death seem such a tragic event, yet we know that this is not true.  Death is not the end of all there is; death is but a transition out of this dream called Earth Life and a return to the energetic reality of All that Is.  We do not understand why one would choose to make unethical choices or tolerate unethical behavior simply to maintain a status quo or even to gain a “better” lifestyle, but it is not our choice, it is not our decision.  We are here to Support and Guide as we can.

But yes, even a forced non-choice is still a choice.  Subterfuge may be necessary for someone to stay alive, but how can one turn that dishonorable and unethical situation into a beneficial situation?  How can one grow and learn and still be filled with the Light through making selfish choices?  It is the framework of those choices that matter and it is what takes place outside those choices that matter.

Perhaps you turn your back on a bullying situation because you need your job.  Your family depends upon you to provide for them and you know that if you report someone to management the only thing that will happen is you will lose your job.  So – you make a non-choice and look the other way.  That is the action inside of the work environment.  So what do you do after that?  One possible step is to look for another job and then when you leave you leave a report of all that took place.

Maybe, because you saw the other person was hurting, you help the person in some way – such as lightening their work load because you know they must be under tremendous stress.  Perhaps you take them out to lunch as you know their money is short and you pay for both your lunches.  Small things can make a big thing better.  Anonymous help can also provide assistance to those you are not aiding through direct action while not necessarily placing yourself in jeopardy.

So many individuals on the earth plane have succumbed to apathy; instead of just noting an event, step forward and do something about it.  Find your Inner Light and your Inner Voice and USE your Free Will actively – for regardless of what you do or do not do your life is being written by you.  Don’t wake up 20 years down the road in a pity poo poo pile saying “poor me, I hate my life, how did I get here” because YOU are responsible for your choices and your non-choices.  We love you and will support you always, but this is something that is important for you to understand.

Our friend Jeshua has a story he would like to share now to help you understand Free Will better.

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In a village, a young mother dies leaving a small, five year old boy alone in the world.  The village is like many others and barely acknowledges the boy or his needs.  He has learned enough to forage food for himself and to start a fire to keep himself alive, but he moves into the woods nearby because the villagers won’t help him at all.  In the woods he can find what he needs and he discovers a small indention in the rocks he calls his “cave”.  Here, he builds his fires and keeps himself warm, and catches rabbits, digs roots, and picks herbs from the plants around him.

The village quickly forgets about his as soon as his sad, dirty face disappears.

Several years later, a man comes to the village seeking the woman and their child.  Discovering that the village has neglected to care for his child after his wife’s death enrages him and he beats the village elder unconscious.

The village turns its back onto the man and rushes to the elder’s side to tend to him.  The man goes out into the woods and slowly hunts the child down.  The child is emaciated, scarred, and wounded from casual and not-so-casual encounters with the local flora and fauna.  He speaks softly to the child of his mother and explains that he is his father, who had been off to war for many years, protecting the village from raiders.  The village had sent him as one of their representatives and the elder had agreed, as compensation for the risk, to look and care after the mother and child until he returned.

He helps his son gather the things he values and tells him that they are going on a long trip but will eventually be living in an environment where he will be cared for properly and taught skills and knowledge that would help him achieve success in the world.

Many years go by.  The boy becomes a man and indeed, becomes successful.  His life in the wilderness alone has receded into a dim memory until one day his father dies.  His father requests that he return his ashes back to the village where he was born so he can rest comfortably with his ancestors.  The young man reflects upon his father’s life and decides he needs to honor his father by returning his ashes to the village.  This trip will mean much discomfort from many weeks of traveling, yet it is important to him to honor the man who raised and cared for him for so many years.  This vibrant, young man from the city is unrecognizable from that sad, little boy they had last seen many years ago.

He gathers some friends and family and asks them to join him on the trip to honor his father.  As he travels, small memories rise to the surface of his mind; laughing with his mother as they foraged for food, watching her sewing rabbit pelts together to make winter clothing, and eventually, watching the light in his mother’s eyes fade as she convulsed on the ground from the wounds her attacker inflicted.

The boy-now-man is racked with grief and wonders if these are true memories or if they are the imaginings of a small child.

He and his party arrive in the village many weeks later.  They are accustomed to camping along the way as the villages are few and the inns to rent a bed are fewer.  The village looks as if it has seen better days in the past and the prosperity dominant in the city they live in not present.

He surveys the village and realizes not only how it has not grown, but that it is actually quite stagnant.  He finds and makes small talk with the village shopkeeper; she has few enough goods to sell but they will need supplies for the return trip and so he purchases what she has available.  They talk about how sad the village is now and how bustling it had been decades past.

He leaves his group outside the village square to find a place to set up for the night while he sets off to complete his task.  Memories flash into his mind.  Memories of them taking his mother’s body away and throwing it into a pit.  Memories of the elder turning his back on the young boy, telling him that he was not welcome in the village.  The young city man becomes unsettled emotionally as he continues his short journey around the village and into the woods.

Eventually he finds his way to the area he had lived in the woods.  There is little to discover there and he has doubts about whether he is in the correct spot.  He sits for a few more minutes, allowing himself some time to remember his younger life and then makes his way to the graveyard to complete the task that brought him there.  Even the graveyard looks decrepit and sad.  He spots an old man sitting in a chair against the wall of a nearby building and approaches him.

He respectfully chats with the man and discovers that the old man tends the graveyard and has done so for almost 40 years.  He has asked for help from the village elder as he has no apprentice and is physically challenged with the tasks nowadays, but sadly he relates the village elder’s refusal that no one has time for the “superstitious nonsense” of honoring one’s family and suggests all bodies should be thrown into a pit to rot instead.

The young city man shakes his head sadly and agrees that some people do not understand that the proper honoring of one’s family is integral to a person’s character.  He then asks about the rough dirt on the other side of the cemetery walls.  The old man explains that the pit is for those of bad character or strangers whose characters they cannot attest to.  Only those known of good character are allowed to be buried in the graveyard.

The young city man returns to the village where he had left his group and finds that a middle aged man has joined them, asking questions about the group and their journey.  He tells the man that they are just passing through on family business and will be leaving in the morning.  He asks the man who he is and the man identifies himself as the village elder.  He elaborates that he has been village elder for over 25 years and relates with relish the story of how the previous elder had been beaten to death by a man with no reason.

The young man from the city well knows the history between his father and the previous elder; when he had reached the age of maturity his father had laid out all the details before him.  He questions the elder closely on the story, looking long into the man’s face as he speaks.

The elder is a loud and boisterous man, who likes to hear his own voice.  He relates with relish that he was made elder while he was 25 years old because he was the previous elder’s kin and most of the men in the village had been killed during the war.  He speaks of his own self importance and how the village would be gone completely if not for him.

He let the man ramble on at length, allowing him to revel in his self-importance as the man from the city waited for the memory niggling at the back of his mind to finally emerge.  As the man slowly ran out of steam, he began to talk.  He told the elder who he was and explained clearly to the man the reason for his visit was to drop off his father’s ashes to his family’s gravesite.  The elder understood finally, who the stranger was and roared at him in outrage.

The majority of the village was paying attention to this exchange.  Old men and women alike came to their doors and windows when the city visitor had started speaking.  Those old enough to have treated the little boy poorly stood with their eyes cast down, afraid to look at the city man who had once been one of their own.  They could see from the city man’s demeanor and dress that he was educated and successful, and if they had treated him kindly he might have been willing to help the village during its time of distress now.

The village elder continued to rant at the man, discounting the agreement the village had made to the young men sent off to war and arguing that no one had harmed him directly.  The city man explained to the elder that he remembered everything that had happened to him all those years ago, including how the village had treated him when he was vulnerable and alone.

Calmly, he stood up and smacked the village elder hard across the face; the village elder flew back and lay stunned on the ground, holding his bloody lip with his hand.

“You lie too much and are rife with dishonor,” said the city man.  He addressed the village in a strong, but quiet voice.  “This ‘elder’ of yours is a liar and a killer.  His father allowed him to stay in the village instead of going with the rest of the young men to fight in the war because he was afraid to lose the son he had spoilt.

Then, once my father was gone, the elder’s son harassed my mother continually, until one night he broke into our small home, abused her, and left her to die.  His father the elder came and dragged my mother’s body out and threw her into the pit to hide his own son’s crimes, and the elder told me to leave as no one will help me.  The elder turned his back multiple times on the agreements of assistance he made with my father.

Eventually my father returned, my father learned the truth of what happened and he meted out the punishment deserved.  Your village elder received the punishment that your entire village earned for being dishonorable and living lies.  His own son, after taking on the mantle of village elder, also has not lived up to the responsibilities inherent with that role and position, and he continues his father’s legacy of being dishonorable and a liar.

And you each share the fault.  Each of you knew about the agreements made.  Each of you turned your eyes away and your backs onto the situation once the men had left for war.  And now you get to live with this village “elder” in a village that is dying – all due to your own choices.  Do not worry – I am not going to do anything further to him or to this village.  You will reap what you have sown – all those many years ago through today.

The young man turned his back on the village and the village elder and left them all to deal with the Truth he had brought into the Light.

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In this story there are many instances of choices and non-choices.  We cannot tell you what the ‘correct’ choice is or was because there is no ‘correct’ choice.  There is choice and non-choice and both have ramifications and benefits.

Each person is responsible for their own Free Will choices regardless of what the circumstances are surrounding a situation.  If you believe otherwise, you are lying to yourself.  We will still love you, but the lies you tell yourself are just as damaging as the lies you tell to others.

We beseech you – free yourself from the lies you are telling yourself and embrace the Truth; it may be hard at first, but it gets easier very quickly and it will change your life.

Blessings to you, Beloved Ones.

Developing Trust and Faith in God

Greetings, Beloved Ones,

A recent conversation with a student has prompted us to respond in depth to the questions of Faith and Trust in God.  The concept of having Trust in God is quite complex and has many layers; developing Trust in God is required to actually establish Faith.  Without Trust in God Faith does not exist.

Faith is the embodiment of Trust in God.  At the highest levels of Faith there is no questioning, only action.  Have you ever wondered why the Angelics do not intercede in your life beyond offering love and emotional support?  Why do they not help more actively when they can see humans are having a difficult time?  It is because they have Faith and Trust in God.  God saw every possible action and choice available to you in your lifetime before God allowed you to incarnate into your current form.

Humans have a very hard time from the get go.  You get dropped into a body, it is uncomfortable and cold from the first day, you are helpless to deal with anything going on around you and entirely dependent upon others for everything.  Worst case scenario you end up in a horrible environment…and people wonder how God could do this to them?

God knew what goals and objectives your Higher Self had when the plan was made and God allowed you to come here.  God saw every permutation of every life and every interaction of every life…for all that exists, everything is finite to God.   God saw your life and how it interacted with everything and ok’d it, giving you the opportunity to be here.

There is a saying humans state that God never gives you more than you can handle.  Yet there are many individuals who would disagree and say that if God loved them then God would not let them experience pain.  Humans view everything, including death, as bad or good…never just is.  When you are in a dream do you remember you are asleep or is the dream “everything” to you?

Human reality is just a dream in many ways…a fleeting existence that is valid at the time one is experiencing it, but human death is not the end of all there is, so why would God be worried if someone should die, either through natural means, murder, or suicide?  All return to God in the end…so it is all good.  Why would God shield individuals away from pain?  What stimulus would individuals then have for change and growth?

Yes, it is the experience that is important…not whether something is good or bad, or whether someone feels something is “too much”.  That expression is without meaning…just because someone feels pain does not mean that one has been given “too much”.  Your life situation was created from every choice you ever made.  How many of those choices were taken and made out of greed, selfishness, unwillingness, wantonness, resentment, and other negative emotions developed out of a state of Fear?

When you develop your Faith in God, you start to release Fear and thus are able to heal more easily.  Love is all there is, but if you are in a state of Not-Love then you are in a state of Fear and thus you must reverse the process.  You must release the conditioning that you were raised with to discover that which resonates within you.  By being transparent with what you resonate you will come to a greater understanding of who you are and how you were designed.  Thus, you will have valuable information as you design your path to return to a state of Grace and Love with God.

If you believe that every choice you have made or not made has led you to this place in your life, how would God give you too much?  You created your personal reality and you are living it…and you are each the one responsible for changing that reality as well.  Not God, not the Angelics, and not anyone else.  Just you.  Understand – as long as you stay confused and mixed up emotionally you will always be giving your power away.  By developing a state of Grace and a state of Love you will have a platform to base your life choices upon that is not a state of Fear.

Love is All There Is.  The perception that Love does not exists is Fear and it is a lie.  When you return time and again to the idea that Love is All There Is then you will grow to realize that all this, the images, the politics, the pain, the promises…all are just wisps in the dream you call reality.  How much energy you put into this reality will make it more or make it less real to you.  It does not invalidate your experience – it just means your energy creates the reality you choose.  If you don’t like your reality, it is up to you to change it.  Many don’t because they are either fearful it will be “worse” or they are afraid of some unknown ramification…change scares many, many people.

So, if we return to the knowledge that God ok’d your life, then who are the Angelics to countermand God’s decision and take matters into their own hands?  They are embodiments of Love and Compassion, and have a constant connection with God, thus their Faith has a stronger reason to exist than Humanity does.  Thus they understand that God knows all and understand that this is just one aspect of a larger whole, an experience designed and approved for you to have.

“Why is my life this way?”  This is the basis of your questioning of God.  Even in the “happiest” of lifetimes everyone SHOULD ask this question.  It starts one on the path.  Even those raised in a religious environment should ask this question as it will lead to the path of self-enlightenment and a deeper connection with God.

So – that is the beginning…and the end.  But there is a whole lot in between.  Humans are designed to have emotional depths and complexities, so healing a hurt is not easy – it takes a lot of work and effort and if you think you have healed something then start over, because the chances are you have not.

Human societies used to respect the elders and the wise people of their tribes and communities. Wisdom and maturity were goals that were valued and the individuals in the communities strove for those traits.  Introspection and reflection were daily parts of one’s life and so while some hurts were never healed, the dedicated person would work their way through pain and gain wisdom of the events and grow in that manner.

Trust in God is one of the basic opportunities that all humans have, regardless of how they phrase it or how they define God.    Abandonment is at the root of all lifetimes.  Your connection to God was completely severed when you a small child and that created a lack in your life.  A place that was filled became empty.  In some households that lack will be more apparent than in others.

But the lack exists within each human.  That is the basis of all addictions, the desire for love and companionship, and the desire to inflict pain upon others who seem happier than you…common human patterns of behavior.  The root is the fact that you no longer Trust God, because God abandoned you here…alone and without your memories of what Truly Is…in this human world that is cold and harsh and you know something is missing…something is not right…but over time you bury that sensation in some experience or another.

School, activities, hobbies, family – all these things occupy your mind, but nothing quite ever fills the gap.  When you feeling the failure that is to fill the gap, that feeling in turn feeds into the distrust and unhappiness.  Maybe one’s life is far from filling that gap or maybe one’s life is close to perfect.  It does not matter, really.  The lack is there, present for each person to fill in some way, shape, or form.

Not everyone turns to the Spiritual to fill the gap.  Some turn to food, drugs, alcohol, addictions, manipulation, bitterness, politics…anything where one can get some form of instant satisfaction that buries the gap for even a little while.

The Spiritual Path requires solitude and quiet.  Why?  Because when one is alone by oneself one cannot escape from oneself, one’s choices in life, and one’s perceived ideas of good, bad, happy, or sad.  It provides the opportunity for one to reflect, which can lead to healing and growth.  Not always, as many prefer to wallow in their poo poo pile, but some individuals relish in the solitude that is not aloneness, and they grow and develop in their connection to God.

But the human society does not approve of time spent in solitude.  Your society today has done everything it can to create tools and toys that occupy every waking moment to prevent solitude.  Why? Perhaps because the ego would find itself diminished if one were able to grow beyond needing its approval and existence.  Perhaps because when one heals and grows the Detritus has nothing to feed upon.  Perhaps because those around you are jealous and fearful of anyone who grows beyond their approved status quo.  Perhaps because of these things and more.

Why would anyone or anything struggle to keep from changing a life that is unhappy?  It is the same answer regardless of what it is – FEAR.  Your solution to Fear is the absence of fear which is LOVE. LOVE must be present all the time, in all that you do.  LOVE feeds Gratitude which feeds Hope and Charity for self and others.

These attributes were not just arbitrarily made up – they have a purpose and that purpose is designed to help someone move through the rough terrain of the spiritual path.

When you find Love then you start to heal the mistrust you hold inside against God.  When you can look at your life – all of it, mistakes, shame, fear, all of it! – with understanding of how it was all allowed to take place to take you to a state of Grace, then you will experience Gratitude, another step towards learning to Trust God.

A State of Grace is a place of learning and growth in connection with God.  It is an elevation from your current perspective to one where you have learned from your choices and have healed and grown from those choices.  Misery leads to Grace because humans only respond to negative stimulation.  Thus, Misery leads to opportunities to grow, thus leads to Grace.  Grace is not Gratitude.  Gratitude is not the same thing as Grace.  You can be grateful for many things, but having Gratitude does not mean one has achieved a state of Grace.  When you have achieved a state of Grace, however, you are grateful to all and for all you have gone through.

In its simplest state, Trusting God means viewing with Gratitude the life you have chosen and led as a blessing and not a curse, with the realization that even when you felt isolated and disconnected from God that God was truly there every moment along the way.

Why am I not being aided as I requested?

Greetings Beloved Ones,

The Angelics hear your pleas for assistance when you make them and we always send you the energies of Light, Love, and Strength to help you through all situations you find yourself in so that you can choose you actions.  Many times, however, you are swaddled in pain and anger and don’t always think about the choices you make or have made.

We want to help you understand why you don’t always get your prayers answered in the manner you are requesting.

Understand that the Light Beings, the Angelics, and your Higher Self all understand completely what your blueprint for this lifetime is.  We understand the hopes, dreams, and desires that you wanted to accomplish while on the earth plane and we will never, ever go against that plan.  The Truth of the matter is simple, though it may seem complex and convoluted to you.  Every choice and non-choice you have made is a reflection of free will.  Every choice and non-choice you have made has created the life you live and has brought you to this moment in your life.

We do not see any of this as “bad”.  Bad and good are human designations and are entirely dependent upon the perspective of the individual living their human experience.  We of the Light respect your right to make any and all choices, regardless of whether it is “good” or “bad” for you.  If you choose a life filled with self-destructive choices We will honor you for it.  If you choose a life making logical and reasoned choices We will honor you for it.  If you sit and hide in your home and refuse to make any choice at all We will honor you for it.

It is not our place to judge how you live your life or the choices and non-choices you make while living it.  We will not judge you after it is over either.  This is your human experience and We Love You completely, entirely, and unconditionally.

What happens when choices or non-choices you make lead to something you designate as “bad” or “undesirable”?  We Love You and send you Light, Love, and Strength to help you do as you choose.

Unfortunately, many individuals sink into a state of emotional turbulence and reject the energy that is sent to them as they cycle down in their poo poo piles (as my Avatar calls it).  And We of the Light honor and respect the choice to reject the energy.

We will never force you to do anything because it is not Our place to do so.  This is YOUR life.  Your life is a result of Your Free Will.  No one can change your life but You.  And We provide you with the strength to do so – if you accept it, it is there.

So, below are a few guidelines to help you understand why your prayers are not always answered as you want them to be answered.

1.  Your Angelics, Light Beings, Higher Self, Guardians, etc. all work together for your Highest and Best Good in alignment with your blueprint, your life plan which was established before you were born into the body you currently reside in.

2.  Just because you are miserable does not mean the Light will do anything to alleviate the situation or make it better.  The Light honors every choice you make – including those that make you miserable or choices that allow you to stay in situations that are not in your highest and best good.
3.  You are ultimately responsible for your choices and non-choices through the Truth of Free Will and these are what determine and create the life you live and We of the Light respect that and will not interfere with your choices.
So, even though you may be consciously asking for assistance to remove or heal something, if it is not in your highest and best good for any Light Being to take action then they won’t.
Yes, you may feel that you are trying to change a situation, but it may be that you are not yet at the point you need to be for the Light to lend more substantial assistance, that you have not taken the actions necessary to trigger their help, or it may be that the lesson itself has not yet appeared or been experienced.  Many times individuals feel they have reached the “end of their rope” and “cannot take another thing”, yet that does not translate into the individual taking action to make a change in their life.  You might detest the situation you are in, you may feel hopeless or bound to a situation, but you are the only person who can make a change in your life.
Humans can definitely get caught up in their emotional state – this is one of the wonderful things about being human – the emotional state!  The Truth, however, is that sometimes humans have to go through something terrible to learn something as part of their Life Plan.  Humans will unconsciously make free will choices to ensure that the experience happens because it is written into their blueprint.  One’s Higher Self will also bring about situations and circumstances to ensure that experience so you have the opportunity to grow and learn from it.
But take heart – once the lesson has been learned options and opportunities will arise out of nowhere to assist you with making new free will choices…or non-choices.  This is our gift to you – assistance that just appears and which can change your life in an extremely short period of time.  To accept a choice and make a change in your life is your free will…to reject a choice and make a non-action and keep your life is your free will.
We know that what we have state above may make some individuals unhappy or even discontented.  Having the human experience was never meant to be easy or carefree.  Unfortunately, many individuals were raised with concepts and ideas of the way your reality is that are completely out of sync with the Truth.  We are in the process of writing a guide e-book to provide information to assist you to help yourself.  The Truths presented in the e-book will be options for you to accept or reject based off your resonance to what is presented.
Remember!  We will never tell you what to do – we Love you and honor your right to Free Will, and will be with you always!
Blessings to you, Beloved Ones.

Relationships and Unconditional Love

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

A question was posed to us recently:  how can I best love unconditionally while seeing the humanity in that person?

To love unconditionally is not a normal human state of being.  Humans love, but in passionate and diverse ways.  And most individuals, when they decide they love someone, are actually interpreting a particular emotion as love, instead of it truly being love.

Again, human love is very conditional – even the love of parent for offspring can be very unconditional.  When you look at what the job is of a parent – to raise a child from birth to adult in a manner that is healthy, teaches values in alignment with society, and which prepares that child to take its place in society as a functioning adult – it is amazing when it is successful and usually tragic when it is not.

But even then, when the child has become an adult and is contributing to society in a meaningful way, parents refuse to let go.  They make demands that their child continue to be in their life, to continue the traditions they raised the child in, and in turn demand that the child care for the adults.  All in all, throughout the process of this lifetime, there are conditions that are demanded of the child to coerce and manipulate the child into becoming what is deemed “appropriate” to the parents’ standards.

If that child should balk at doing what it is instructed, if the child should become the “black sheep” by running off and doing his or her own “thing”, then see indeed how conditional that love truly is.  But how else is a child going to become a contributor to the society if one does not force it into the society’s patterns of behavior?  Interesting question, yes?  How can the adult raising the child respect the child and all that the child is – potentials, intelligence, personality, gifts – without crushing the child in the process of taming that child to society’s standards.

Let’s examine a romantic love relationship.  You have individual A and you have individual B.  They meet, get to know each other, and decide they want their connection to get further entwined.  But A has emotional baggage from A’s life and B has emotional baggage from B’s life and that does not always work together – exactly the opposite in some cases.  So what to do?  Disengage and move away from each other?  Many people will do just that and others will stay put.  What is the correct action to take?  Well, that depends on each person.

Love is a complex emotion for humans because of the conditions each puts upon love.  Some feel they are giving a gift to the other person and if B does not treat A’s love as the end of all there is then A feels neglected and hurtful.  B feels that having told A that B loves A in the past means B does not have to repeat it multiple times every day.  A’s feelings are hurt because B does not do what A wants B to do.  B feels disrespected because A does not believe B loves A.

So messy.  And so unnecessary.  A is projecting A’s issues onto B and B is projecting B’s issues onto A.

To truly love anyone, the individual must love his or her self.  And to love anyone else unconditionally you must love yourself unconditionally.  But how often is that a reality?  How often do you judge yourself harshly for something you did?  How often do you wish you had done X instead of Y?  How often do you berate yourself for something nonsensical that you perceive as being so important?

Until you can accept yourself unconditionally you will not be able to accept anyone else unconditionally; you will continue to project your wounds and weaknesses onto every interaction you have with your loved ones until you rip the love you have for that person to bits.

Now that we have probably answered your question in a way you were not expecting, let us tell you that it is possible to heal yourself and to learn to love yourself unconditionally.  This is the one love affair that you should never stop working on your entire life – the one with yourself.

As you work on this relationship with yourself, you will find the warts and the baggage and the negative emotions and past history within yourself that you have buried away.  And you will heal yourself of that baggage and thus release yourself from the chains of judgement and disrespect, possibly of self-hatred and self-despising.\

Along the way you will encounter individuals to love – for that is part of the human process.  And this love will take many forms – love for family members, love for friends, love for lovers.  And you can work to share this love with those others while constantly being alert and sensitive to the wounds ever present within you.  Why?  So that you don’t project your wounds onto the other person and their actions and choices.

This is where respect for Free Will comes into play.  If you don’t acknowledge that each individual has the right to make their free will choices then you will constantly be trying to force that person to live within a box of your own making, created by you out of judgement.  When you acknowledge that your free will is equal to the other person exercising his or her free will then you have taken a step forward.

Why?  Because unconditional love exists when others make free will choices that may negatively affect you or your life.  A loves B, but B decides to take B’s savings and go hiking through the Amazon for a year.  Maybe B has been telling A that this is B’s heart’s desire but A feels that paying the bills is more important.  B goes anyway, leaving A to deal with the aftermath.

If A loved B unconditionally then A would acknowledge B’s right to do the trip to the Amazon. A would also recognize A’s right to make free will choices that are in A’s highest and best good.  A would not bad mouth B’s decisions but would instead live their life making choices based upon that unconditional love and not out of hurt, spite, pain, remorse, anger, etc.  So when B comes back – now what?  If B loves A unconditionally then B contacts A to see where A is to discover the changes A made and if A and B are both willing to continue in a love relationship.

Many people would call B’s actions selfish and immature; they would say A was hard suffering and deserved to have someone “better” in A’s life.  But if people saw the situation framed in unconditional love, then they would understand that all is perfect.  Love is not a commodity to be parsed out sparingly, with a high price tag.  Love is the emotion that makes human life possible and when it is shared unconditionally and unstintingly then each person will live their life in accordance with his or her highest and best good, regardless of how it affects others.

Warning – the various societies around the planet are not accepting of this type of behavior, so regardless of whether A can love B unconditionally is liable to strike terror into the collective consciousness of that society which will then work unilaterally to destroy any concept of unconditional love.

But – that’s the challenge, isn’t it?  Every time, when you the individual stretch the boundaries of your societal norms those around you react on an unconscious level.  But that does not mean you stop – it means you keep pushing forward – if the choices are in your highest and best good they will happen easily and effortlessly.

Human love is complex because humans make it complex.  Unconditional love is very simple, but difficult to attain.  It is not meant to be impossible, though.

You are loved, at all times, unconditionally.  Blessings to you.

Friendship and Self Respect

Greetings Beloved Ones.

Friendship is such an important construct for humans.  As you are born into a family, picked for various reasons by your Higher Self, as you grow through your life you will find people you will take to your heart and call them various terms defining your friendship.

Just as with your family members, these individuals will have ample opportunity to hurt your feelings and your heart.  They will also bring many moments of joy and happiness to you, if you allow it.  If you are blessed to have someone come into your life and your heart you must always remember that this person is a spiritual being on their own path, and thus they have their own lessons to learn, have the right to make their Free Will Choices, and whatever they choose to do has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them.

As you grow in your life you develop friends from different locations – work, hobbies, travel – and they add to different parts of you and help you grow and round out your world viewpoint.  This is good.  No one is an island and if you prevent yourself from learning about the reality you live in, that will hamper you from growing and developing in your life plan.

We angelics are always happy for you when you find that individual who you add to your tribe to love, and happier when that relationship stays positive.  Unfortunately, just as you have disagreements with your family members, so too will you disagree with your friends.  This does not mean that the friendship is over, however, what happens is entirely up to free will – yours and the others.

There is nothing wrong with enjoying and loving someone.  But when one takes in another person’s issues it is detrimental to oneself – and can throw one off of one’s healing path.  All too often, in pain and sadness, humans reach out to others to solve their problems, instead of looking inside and reaching for their higher self and their guides to help them.  Each person is responsible for their own healing and growth and when you give your power over to someone else, you will stagnate instead of grow.

Indeed, one should really focus on living in the moment and enjoying the moment while respecting and loving oneself.  Honor that which you are growing through as a step in your path just as you honor others living this challenging life known as being human.  Love yourself and love those around you, giving the respect to each other that each has the free will choice to make whatever decision one chooses – regardless of any label others may place upon that choice.

Love is so much more than the narrow definition humans give it.  One definition of Love that we would like you to embrace and enact in your life is that you have free will to make a choice or not make a choice.  Not making a choice is still a choice, but making active choices instead of passive choices will help you develop your sense of Will over time.  Once your sense of Will is developed you will be less likely to fall complacently into line with those who may not have your highest and best good in their intentions.

And that is truly what friendship is about – spending time with others who accept you and respect that your highest and best good is equally as important as theirs.  If you are spending time with someone who does not respect your highest and best good, then it may be time to meditate on the relationship and see what is holding your friendship in place.  Is there a lesson that needs to be learned and healed?  Do you stay friends because of stagnation or fear?  Even family members eventually leave the home environment and begin the process of living on their own, separate from each other.  If you have someone in your life who has expectations of what you should do for them or their life, this may be a prompt for candid self examination.

Self examination can be a difficult process for it requires honesty and the ability to look truthfully at situations.  We angelics are here for you, now and always, and love you as you are and are always surrounding you with love.  Even if you walked away from all you know, we will always be with you.  You are never alone and we want you to know that.  Just as you are reading this, we are surrounding you with love and joy.  Life is filled with difficult decisions for humans, but we want you to know that you should never stay in any relationship because you are afraid of being alone.  We are with you always, your personal posse that will never leave you, so be honest and truthful in your self examination so you can grow best from it.

We are with you always, beloved ones, and that is something you can count on.  Listen for us, feel for us, for we are always reaching out to you with Love, especially when you are in a peaceful place and can hear us better.

Remember, Love is all there IS, and You Are Loved, You Are Love, and You Love.  Say it to yourself when you are feeling scared and lonely and you will realize the Truth in that.

“I Am Loved, I Am Love, I Love.”

Find strength in the knowledge that we love you and are always with you.

Blessings to you this day of our Creator.

Accept Your Grace

Greetings Beloved Ones.

Today’s message is about you and how you treat others.  Sometimes, when you are having a bad day, or are scared, or are threatened, or just in a certain place in your life you don’t realize how you treat those in your life.

You control whether someone is in your life.  Let’s take an example of someone who you have in your life, but your relationship is uncomfortable, maybe drama-ridden.  It may be that you weigh the positives and the negatives and feel that the positives are worth someone in your life.  If that is the case, it is your responsibility to accept that person entirely as you have decided to have them in your life, warts and all.  You do not have the right to criticize that person for their choices or for their career or for their friends or for whatever reason you criticize them.  You accept them as they are, with love, knowing that they are doing the best they can do on any given day – just as you are doing the best you can on any given day.

Let’s look inside for a moment.  Look deep inside you and you will find a complex, emotional person who really has little control on the things that happen in your life.  You can only control how you react.  So if you are having a bad day and your 5 year old knocks over the glass with milk in it, do you really feel it is a loving thing to do to scream at them, spank them or put them in the corner, and then blame them for the rest of the night for an accident?  Even if it was on purpose, this is a spiritual being who is still learning to adjust to being in a human body after only 5 years here.  How many years have you been in your body?

We angelics love you – completely and without reservation.  Regardless of your behavior or your choices or your actions we will always love you and we accept you as is.  We want you to look at your definition of love and acceptance and see where you stand.  No, we don’t ask humans to love as we do, but we do ask you to stretch yourself, to grow in Light, and to seek Love instead of conflict.

Many days you ask us for help, for guidance, for assistance.  At those times, we reach out to you, to continuously send you messages of love and hope and help.  Sometimes you may hear us in some fashion and other times you do not.  REMEMBER – WE ARE ALWAYS WITH YOU.  So if you are in a place where you cannot hear or feel us, remember you are loved and accepted by us and we will always be here to support you.

Back to those who are in your life.  Only you can make a determination of whether any person needs to be present in your life.  If someone is toxic and hurtful, you have the right to make the changes to remove that person from your life.  If you are in a situation where you are being hurt or those you love are being hurt, you have the right to do what you can to change that situation.  Just remember – acting impulsively is acting out on your feelings.  Reacting is secondary to analyzing.  Humans have an amazing bandwidth of emotions second to none in the universe.  Sometimes you have a hard time understanding what you are feeling much less controlling your actions in response to those emotions.

We ask you to step back and analyze the situation before acting impulsively.  Why, you ask?  Because when you act impulsively you are not looking at the spiritual being in the body you are reacting to an emotion that body caused you to feel.

Let’s look at an example.  Remember back in time to a place where you were either in school or work and the person in charge of you – teacher or supervisor – belittled you, made fun of your work, was derogatory of your efforts.  Some people would strike out physically in anger in response.  Again, not a best action to choose.  Others will stuff all their hurt emotions inside and ignore it.  That too is not a good idea.  Never suppress emotions as that causes dis-ease and other issues to manifest on the physical level.  It may be because of circumstances that you never get to have an emotionally satisfying response to this person, but there are ways you can process the incident and move forward by using what gifts that came with you into this world.

Who knows what kind of day this person is having.  You don’t know what kind of life they have either.  Stepping back and not taking personally what anyone else says to you or about you is always the first step.  Don’t give your power away – not to strangers, not to friends, not to loved ones.  YOU are the master of your own destiny and you need to keep your own power within your energy fields.

So, look at the source of the situation and step back and say to yourself – I respect you as a spiritual being locked into a human form.  I have difficulties with this some days and I respect that you may be having difficulties with it right now.  I am me and you are you and together we are both on the same journey back to the Creator.  Then, ask your angels and guardians to work with that person’s angels and guardians and surround them with Light.  Ask for that person to be permeated with Love and ask for them to receive that which is needed for their highest and best good.  And wish them well on their path.  Don’t make statements like you hope they get hit by a car and die because that kind of energy you send with that statement will only come back to you as karma.

Yes, it can be excruciatingly difficult to send Love to someone who is cruel and ugly to you, but part of each person’s path is to grow beyond the perceived limitations of their life.  When you can truly SEE that it truly is not about you – how can it be?  They don’t know you! – then you don’t waste your energy on feeding back into that negative energy spiral the person has around them.

Know that the person’s angels and guides are trying to help them right at that second, just as yours are helping you every minute of every day.  “There but for the grace of God I go” is a powerful statement that we wish more people would incorporate into their lives.  Because truly, on any given day it is the Grace you have accepted into your life that keeps you moving forward.

Accept your Grace from God, know that you are Loved and Blessed regardless of how your day is going, and share that Love with those you encounter.  You don’t have to be perfect at it, but as you practice this it will get easier.  And think how wonderful it will be when everyone is practicing this belief and our world transforms around us.

There, but for the Grace of God, go I.

You are loved, Beloved Ones, and you are never alone.

Step Back and Take Stock

Greetings Beloved Ones.

We angelics would like you to ponder an idea.  When you are struggling with doing something and nothing seems to be going well, what do you do?  What is your pattern of behavior in situations like this?

We ask this because many people engage in the self-destructive pattern of continuing to throw themselves into the situation because they are afraid to “fail”.  They are afraid to be seen or afraid to view themselves as a “quitter” and so they continue to battle onward.  Unfortunately, this is not always what is in your highest and best good.

Challenge exists on the human plane and that you will find challenges throughout your lifetime.  When you encounter something challenging, we would like you to take a moment to step back, become calm and centered, and ask yourself, “why am I doing this?”.

This simple question, asked when you are grounded and balanced and in a neutral emotional state, can help direct your next steps.  So much negative energy is wrapped up in frustration, hurt, and anger feelings and while these certainly can damage you yourself, when you are caught up in a cycle of these negative emotions many times you can also hurt those around you – especially those you love.

There are many detrimental energies that exist on the human plane that encourage these types of emotions and events.  They fan the fire of your ire and then bask in the glow that erupts through harsh words and physical actions.

This is not the path of Love.  These are not actions chosen for you by Spirit.  Whenever any emotion other than Love is felt or expressed by you, realize that you are not acting from a place of Love and you are not acting in connection with Spirit.  Take control and step back and review the situation from a place of calm and detachment.

Your Higher Self has many challenges planned for you in your lifetime.  Your Free Will choices allow you to choose how you will act and live your life.  But we angelics are asking you to stop negative behavior patterns because this is not about overcoming a challenging.  The true challenge is to recognize when you are being manipulated by energies that don’t want you to succeed in living a life based in Love.

Love is all there is, truly.  When you turn away from Love you are adding to the difficulty in your life.  When you turn back to Love, and ask to be shown what else you could be doing, another path will be shown to you.  It may also have challenges, but when you choose the path of Love the challenges will be fewer and your Love of Self and Others will continue to grow.  Choose Love, always.

Keep this in mind, Beloved Ones.  We love you and are here with you always.

Seeking Answers from Within

Greetings, Beloved One.

Imagine for a moment; you see a dog in a room.  Inside the room is a blanket on the floor, a dog food dish, a water bowl, a door to the outside, and a basket of toys.  The dog sits in the middle of the room and whines.  You look at the dog and ask it – are you hungry?  Are you thirsty?  Do you need to go outside?  Do you want to play?  And all the while, the dog looks at you and whines.

You see that the dog is not hurting, so you begin to work your way through the options – is it thirsty, hungry, bored, or needing to use the outdoors.  One after the other, the dog rejects each offering you make to provide succor.  You look at the dog and say “now what?” since nothing you have offered has helped and the dog comes to you and pushes its head into your hands, wanting, of all things some petting.

Humans share this basic desire for love and affection, energetically and physically, and when you don’t perceive that you are getting what you need you will act out, in some way, to satisfy the urge within you.  The urge many times does not have words or clarity – it is a feeling that drives you to “do” something.  Sometimes that something is to eat or drink or take drugs or have sex or even a combination of things that provide a visceral sensation and may seem to be giving that urge what it needs to be satisfied.

But it does not go away.  It may stop for the moment as the dog may stop whining if you feed it or let it outside, but just as the dog will come back to you again until it gets what it wants, that urge will return to you.  The next time, however, you will find it harder to satisfy and you will find yourself more frustrated than before trying to come up with some solution.

We beg you – before you go through these steps again – stop.  Instead of turning to action, instead – turn within.

Within you are the answers to everything you could ever ask for, but you have to be open to the process.  Within each human is a connection that will provide all the love you could ever ask for, all the conversation you could ever seek, and all the acceptance that you will never give to yourself.  All there, waiting for you to seek it out.

Suffering from depression or addiction?  Seek within.  Feeling rejected and lonely?  Seek within.  Feeling happy and joyous?  Seek within.  When you seek within and join with your higher self and with Spirit, you are not taking away from anything else or anyone else – you are merely rejoining with part of yourself that does not exist physically on the earth plane.

You are so much more than the physical shell you occupy.  You are so much more than the personality you exhibit.  You are so much more than the impulses and tendencies that drive your days and your nights.  And when you seek within and rejoin with your higher self and with Spirit, that urge that gnaws at you will be satisfied.

It really does not take much, Beloved Ones.  A few minutes spent daily meditating and seeking within will provide balance, grounding, and Love – things that all beings require.

So what is stopping you from doing this simple task?  Self doubt?  Frustration that your expectation of miracles does not happen the first three times you meditate?  Lack of self-love driving a wedge between you and real Love?

Look at where you are and where you would like to be.  Try meditating for five minutes daily for 22 days in a row.  Five minutes is not much time – some people spend more than twice that amount of time on the commode during their day.  Surely five minutes a day is not too much to ask to heal yourself, feel Love, and receive that which can point you on your way to true fulfillment?

We Angelics are here to help you with this as well!  You are never alone and we can always help you with nudges and reminders to do the task as well as helping you focus while you are doing it.  We are here to Love and Guide you and when you spend time communing with us, we get to share our Love with you as well.

Think about this, Beloved One, and know we are here to help you at all times, every day.  You are Loved.