When Change is Scary

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

Bitterness, resentment, and envy are all emotions based from the fear of lack.  Humans envy someone whom they perceive as having what they themselves desire.  Resentment builds towards those who humans feel have something that they themselves are entitled to.  Bitterness erupts from situations where the perception of “should” was paramount in the mind of the holder.  “I should have received that promotion” or “I should have been born rich” are two typical statements We Angelics here a lot.

Should is an ugly word for humans; it creates division instead of togetherness.  It represents entitlement instead of humbleness.  It is a viewpoint of judgment instead of compassion.

When you are incarnated into the human form, there is no “should”.  There are lots of possibilities and very few guarantees, though, which will help to provide opportunity to you via the choices you make.  Many life experiences do not have free will, yet humans have free will and waste it prodigiously with regrets, resentments, and self hatred.

It is time for you to step back away from these poorly conceived ideas in your mind and realize the one Truth that you live by – you are having a human experience and that experience is created by you – by your choices, by your actions, and by your non-actions.

Only you can change the life you are living, so if you are miserable then it is up to you to make the choices to change it.  Even if you end up temporarily in an uncertain situation, is that not better than being miserable?  How long are you going to be miserable before you take the action to change your circumstances?

The first action humans should take is this – look inside.  Quiet your mind and ask within you for help, for guidance.  These things are present always within you – from your High Self, from your Guides, and from your Angelics.  We all work as a Team to help you through this life experience, but when you are not receptive and not open to Us or Our Messages, then you are cutting yourself off from Love and Support to help you through.

If you still do not feel or hear anything, then we suggest you look carefully at your situation and make plans to change it.  Are you residing somewhere that is painful to you? If so, find a way to make a change.  Look up resources outside of your family if you must, for they exist.  You are not looking for them, but they are there.

Ask for help – it exists. You are not the first person to experience what you are experiencing and you do not deserve to stay in a place of misery.  You have to be your own advocate.  Yes, it may very well be scary.  We know this, and We are here for you.  We will share Our Love for you with you, so remember you are Loved.  You are worthy of living a good life – We know this even if you do not.

Living in a comfortable situation while you are unhappy is still being miserable.  Do not look at what “others have” compared to what you have.  Do not look upon others as “more fortunate” or “lucky” to have what they have.  You only see the outer shell of their life – not their whole life. They could be miserable and staying put because they are afraid if they leave their comfortable home they will not have a comfortable home again.

Yet We say to you – they are not happy, so what good is a comfortable home when you are miserable?  Better to be living in a not-so-nice place and be happy with yourself than living in comfort with someone you do not respect, someone who does not respect you, and which you daily endure hurts – physical, emotional, or mental.

Fear is the only thing holding you back.  The opposite of Fear is Love.  And Love is everywhere you look for it – you only have to be open to receiving for it to be present.  You are Loved and where there is Love and Life, there is Hope for change.  Not from others – never from others. Hope exists within you, FOR YOU.  You are the one to change – not anyone else.  Know that regardless of how daunting it is, there is a way for you to change your life.  Be not afraid, for We are with you at all times.  Call upon Us and We will feed our strength into you.

Do not believe the Lies told to you.  Not the lies told to you by others that you are unlovable or unworthy of love; not the lies that you will never be able to make it on your own or that you are too stupid to do anything right.  These lies are told to you by those who wish to manipulate you into staying put, because you make their life better.  They do not make your life better – you make their life better.  So make the changes necessary because you deserve to have a life where you are making your own life better.

These lies come from many sources – your family members, your mate/partner, your friends, and even inside your own head.  For all too long you have listened and believed these lies so they echo within you.  Set them aside and believe US now – you are Loved. You are worthy. You will be JUST FINE at the end because you are making choices for yourself, for you to be happy.

You are Loved.  We are here with you, Beloved Ones.  Change can be large or small.  Even changes that seem insignificant can have great impact upon you and your life.  Do what you need to make these changes and set your fear aside.  Life does not have to be about hate and conflict, pain and manipulation, force and dominance.  Life is about choice and it is time for you to choose yourself above any other, for only when you help yourself can you help the others in your life.  Choose you.

You are Loved.  Call upon us, Beloved, and We will flood you with Love and Support always.

We Love you unconditionally.