Release Other’s Responsibility and Regain Your Joy

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

We are here with you, always, through all experiences, situations, trials, and challenges. We Love You and will never desert you, even if you cannot feel, see, or hear us in a moment where you are emotionally distressed.

Trust that We Love and Accept you Unconditionally, for that is the Truth.

Being human is hard; We know that.  And so, We have been allowed to share your experiences with you.  We can surround you with Love and We can share our strength and compassion with you.  We cannot live your life for you and We cannot tell you what to do, but We share your life with you in all ways.

We whisper in your mind and tell you, “You are loved.”

We place our energy around you and surround you with our Love.

We “hold” your hands and share Our love with you to provide comfort while you grieve or feel lost.

All the times you have felt alone was not because We left you, but because you shut us out unconsciously in your moments of pain.

We know you are in pain, We feel it and We hear it.  We wish We could help you feel how much you are Loved and how this lifetime is really just a moment and that while some moments need to be endured, others need to be ridden like an amusement park ride with your hands in the air, screaming with excitement.  Even when it does not seem that way.

Lately, We have been counseling some to release the illusion of responsibility for anyone but themselves.  Do not shirk your responsibilities, but do know that when someone is an adult (has hit the age of 18 human years) they are now responsible for their life choices. Offer guidance if you see fit, but it is time to shift to a place of respecting that person’s free will.

Free will is also not just for young people – it is for those who are getting old, and tired. You may have lived a long life, but it is not appropriate for you to pretend to be ill just so someone feels sad for you or comes to visit you.  It is your responsibility to live your life for yourself, every day of your life, instead of being a burden to others because you refuse to find the joy within your life.

We Love You.  We are here to help you discover, or rediscover, joy and love and laughter.  Listen for our whispers, feel for our nudges, and allow yourself to discover the activities, thoughts, and actions that once brought joy into your heart when you were young.  This life is meant to be lived, not suffered through, and We are here to help you through every inch of that adventure!

We Love You.

©2017 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

Root Issues to Fear of Rejection and Loneliness

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

Imagine waking up in a hospital environment and looking around you.  You don’t recognize anything, you don’t know how you got there, you don’t know your own name, and you don’t know anything about yourself.  The hospital staff seem intent upon getting you up and moving, caring only about emptying the bed for someone else to be able to use it.  They don’t pay attention to the fact that you are experiencing emotional trauma from these things happening to you.  They don’t have the basis for understanding what you are experiencing, so they just follow their normal processes to get you on your way.

This is you – waking up in a human body, not recognizing anything or anyone, and not knowing you are at all.  You are now in a physical form and experiencing Separation.

After the Spiritual Presence has entered the human form, the now-human consciousness goes through the process We call “Separation”.  This process creates an illusion that the human consciousness is separate from the Creator and the state of Love which the Spiritual Presence has known all its existence.  This process is necessary for the now-human, but it is very difficult for the Spiritual Presence to go through for it is impossible to imagine the emotions that occur in the human body when all  you know is Love.

The Spiritual Presence takes a while to fully integrate with the human form; as the integration process occurs, Separation is taking place as well.  Separation allows the now-human opportunity to adapt to its new family environment by helping one to “forget” from where he or she originates.  This creates, as you say, a “blank slate” for the human personality and from which all experiences will develop.

There is a percentage of sensitive individuals who, after undergoing Separation, develop a fears through the process.  They mistakenly believe they were rejected by the Creator upon arriving in their new form.  Some even believe they were deliberately abandoned here – helpless, ignorant, and unknowing!  This is not True!  When your life plan was created and shown to you, you were ecstatic, overjoyed that you were going to be able to go the Earth Plane and experience being human!

You wanted this experience so much, yet, now you feel rejected and abandoned, leading you to an emotional place where you begin to fear rejection.  You develop a of Loneliness because you no longer connect to all that you Loved – you are alone for the first time.

These responses are understandable, as being separated from the constant Love you used to live within is hard to endure, and being alone within your mind and feelings only add complications to the human reality.

The child who is undergoing the Separation process does not have a way to articulate what he or she is experiencing. They only know that something out of their control is changing them and they experience fear.

Fear of Rejection and Fear of Abandonment and the Sense of Loneliness are common issues that can develop from the Separation process. When the small child goes through the Separation process, especially if the child is not in a nurturing environment that replaces the Creator’s love, the ache of loneliness still exists within, because the child does not have the words to share what is being experienced.

 

Many times, when a small child cries for an extended period of time, those watching the child lose patience as the child is not immediately soothed when picked up.  Very often, a child is sequestered away from physical comfort by being placed in a crib or play pen to cry alone.  As an adult, one can look back and see how loneliness and abandonment created by the Separation process becomes amplified within the child’s psyche.

Please know that We Angelics nor the Creator have rejected the child during this process. We are always present and always send our Love to the child as it goes through this process, but often when the child is going through the Separation process they are also adjusting to their new physical and the Gifts that this lifetime is providing for them to experience this human lifetime.  Often their sensitivities are dulled down to the point where they don’t always recognize Us or feel the Love We share with them.

This Separation does create a challenging circumstance to overcome, but it is one that ALL those who take on the human state must undergo to be an individual, instead of one merged with the Creator.

We want to share with you how to help yourself heal, for even as an adult – especially as an adult – you have the opportunity to help yourself overcome these emotional wounds.  This healing will allow you to move forward along your Path, stronger in the Light and Love as you live your life with a more positive perspective.

Meditation is key to healing, for when humans allow them to reach a deep meditative state it is possible for the to establish a conscious connection with Spirit and allow the process of healing these old emotional wounds to begin. Many times the individual must heal backwards from the age they currently are to eventually reach the original wound.  To do this you would use your knowledge of your current reactions and behaviors regarding feelings of rejection, abandonment, or loneliness and methodically analyze them, to reduce the sensitivity.  For each memory you hurt from, allow yourself to view the memory clinically as if watching someone else’s life.  Then, call upon Us Angelics to assist with bringing in Light and Love to help you heal the issue.

Some wounds may take multiple sessions to fully heal.  As you move backwards through your lifetime’s worth of memories, heal each wound methodically.  Don’t skip over something because you feel pain – that should be expected because you are trying to heal wounds. Instead, focus on stepping back emotionally and reaching a place of balanced emotions to do the healing work.

Do this as many times as it takes to be able to begin the healing process for the wound. Remember – you are creating Positive Change that will echo through your life as it is today because healing will modify your current energy signature.  This provides the benefit of creating more opportunity for you to develop an even deeper connection with Spirit and the Creator as well as changes in what you do, who you know, and where you live and go and a host of other options you choose.

As you make the effort to do this healing work call upon Us, please!  We Love you and We want to help you heal as much as We can.  Emotional wounds that have been buried and repressed still hurt when they are uncovered.  So when you call upon Us, We can help by supplying Love to soothe those wounds and provide you with a buffer to maintain a more distant view of the situation.  We can help you heal your wounds this way as you heal from a place of Wisdom.  Wisdom was not always available to you as you went through the circumstances that caused the wounds.  Many times you had no basis for comprehension of the situation as it occurred.  Time spent and experiences undergone award Wisdom throughout your life.  It is necessary to understand why wounds happen to the understanding of how to heal those wounds when you are ready to move forward.

It may seem a simple thing, and you may originally think you don’t need help to just get rid of old wounds, but there are many emotions that are attached to each memory and if you don’t prepare yourself you can get lost within those emotions again.  Call upon Us – We are here to help you through this process – it is part of what We can do for you.

You may wonder why you should do this – it could take a long time to heal all these wounds?  As you heal, you are allowing yourself to release these self-limiting beliefs that have been unconsciously driving your life situations as well as your free will choices. Responding to situations with a knee jerk reaction developed from a base of rejection, abandonment, and loneliness is not the way to move forward in your life.  You will only continue to experience these issues as your High Self is driving you to heal your wounds.

What kind of opportunities have you passed up or stepped away from because internally your fear of rejection and abandonment kept you from putting yourself out there and kept you from bringing the spotlight into your life?

What about when you self-limited your relationships because you were afraid you might get hurt?

What about employment opportunities and promotions that you turned away from because you were afraid you were not good enough and you would be found out as a fraud?

Have you thought about all the dreams you turned away from because you thought you might not be as good as someone else?  or that you were afraid to be scrutinized closely and your flaws and “failures” that helped you grow would be mocked?

Fear prevents humans from doing everything joyfully and with love.

People stay locked into their bodies and shut away from those they love out of fear of rejection and abandonment.

People who live their lives from a basis of fear are creating lives based in fear. 

Stop being afraid.  Allow Us to help you heal.  Allow Us to help you gather your strength to say “no more” and grab that shovel to dig deep.

You were a tiny child when these fears were instilled within you.  You have lived your entire life with this program running in your background, dictating what you do, what opportunities you accept, and who you have in your life.  Allow yourself to see what your life could be like and take Our help – We want to help you because all that you can be, for We Love you unconditionally.  We can see all that you can become and We know what will make  you happy, joyful, and content.  The process will be difficult, but you will not be alone when you invite the Angelics who Love you in to help you.

We are here for you.

We want to help you.

But first, you have to gather your courage to allow yourself to ask for Our help.

We are here.  Waiting for you.  Whenever you are ready – there is no time limit to when you can start this – We will eagerly help you move forward.  We will hold your hands along the way, We will give you Love and We will support you with the energy to overcome all obstacles in your way.

When you are ready, We are here for you.

We Love you, unconditionally, in All Ways.

We will always be with you. We will never leave your side.

We Love You.

Blessings to you, Beloved Ones.

 

 

 

©2016 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

 

 

 

Regaining and Living Your Free Will

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

Behind the kindest eyes, evil can lurk.  Behind the sweetest words, deviance can hide. Behind what you want to label as “truth” lies the darkest secret of all – that you are giving to others your power.  Giving your power to those who don’t love you, don’t care about you, don’t care what happens to you, and most of all they don’t care if you live or die.

This may seem a bit dramatic, but We wanted to make it dramatic to get your attention. We would like you to Think.

To think – to whom have you given your power?

You may not realize it, but even in little day-to-day decisions when you allow someone else to tell you what to do and you follow without protest, you are giving away your free will, your innate power of your right to choose.

Perhaps you do it to keep the peace, perhaps because you feel if you rock the boat nastiness will follow, or perhaps it is because you are afraid that if you follow what you feel that you won’t know what will happen, and so that fear keeps you locked into a place of perpetual fear and isolation, hesitant to make any decision that could cause change to happen in your life.

Maybe you don’t think that these little decisions really mean anything.  But We want you to know that every time you stuff your thoughts, opinions, and beliefs down you are creating opportunity for dis-ease, illness, ill thoughts, and self-hatred within yourself.

We don’t want that for you.  We don’t want that for any human living on the planet.  But all too often We watch you, the Ones We Love, make decisions to deny yourself the opportunity to be all that you are.  You negate the wonderfulness that you are by allowing others to impose their beliefs upon you.

There may be times when you make a choice that causes a negative reaction – a “mistake”, but these are learning opportunities and should not be considered the mark of a deficient person.

You deserve to have more wonderfulness in your life.  You may think We mean objects and possessions, but We don’t.  We want you to brim over with all the Light and Love you are truly capable of possessing, of sharing with those around you, but which you turn your back on every time you allow someone else to own your power.

You are WONDERFUL!  We Love you absolutely and completely and there is absolutely NOTHING you can do that will make Us turn our backs on you.  Don’t worry about making a “wrong” choice, don’t worry about not “living to your potential”, and most of all, don’t worry about whether others think you are worthy.

You are worthy!  You are Loved!  You are a Wonderful human being.  And We want you to know this – and to know that We are with you, every step of the way.  You can change your life for the better, you can bring in and take in more Light and Love you might think possible – all with just taking your power back, little by little.

Look at your life closely – what makes you unhappy?  Your job you feel locked into?  Your career path?  Your relationships?  Your familial relations?  When you feel helpless and victimized this is an indicator that you are abdicating your power to someone else.

And that someone else does not Love you – regardless of what he or she says, that person does not love you, for they are putting you into a box and labeling you with terms like, “stupid” or “dumb” or “ignorant” even if they don’t say them out loud to you.  Because they are telling you tacitly or out loud that you don’t know what is best for you, that you don’t how to make a “good” decision, that what you choose is unworthy of their time and energy.

Some things you will find easy to change.  End conversations with those who monopolize your time yet don’t allow you the same opportunity to share.  Walk away from conversations with people who want you to feel sorry for them and they want you to take on their burdens, even though those burdens have nothing to do with you.  Look around you, look at the people in your life, and realize you can make a positive change for yourself, today, but taking back your power little bit by little bit.

Is there someone who hangs around you at work, preventing you from getting your job done because they want to chat about their day, last night, what they watched on TV…regardless of the topic they are taking up your valuable time and making you a prisoner at your own place.  Ask them to leave, put on a headset and focus on work you need to do – and allow yourself to grow your own self esteem by taking back your power with this one small step.  You deserve to take care of YOU and no one will do it like you will.

You are not alone – you are NEVER alone!  We are here with you, supporting you every step of the way.  Things may be a little rocky once you start making changes, but hold onto the Truth that WE LOVE YOU and YOU DESERVE to make whatever change you want to make in your life.

Some people stay in places because they think they are getting “compensation” to buffer their feelings of self-worth.  There is nothing that is worth your own regard of yourself.  You deserve to love yourself and there is nothing anyone can give you that will supplement the lack of self-worth you possess because you have taken something to “compensate” your giving up your voice, your power, your free will.

We are reaching out to you, for you are reading this in this moment.  Allow Us to come in and commune with you in this second.  Allow Us to flood you with the Love We have for you, and let Us strengthen your resolve so you can make the decisions that need to be made, regardless of how “hard” they may seem to be.

Have you given and given and given so much that everyone takes you for granted?  Are you the first person people think of when something bad happens?  This is not because you are kind natured – it is because they can dump their unhappiness upon you.  Look at how often you are imposed upon, whether it is to work late, bring an extra dish for the potluck, to pick someone up so they have a ride, do your children’s chores around the house because they have to do “something” else, or even help someone out with their finances.

These may seem like natural things to do for those you work with or those in your family.  In truth, these people are expecting you to do what they don’t want to do.  They don’t want to utilize time management skills, they don’t want to step up and accept responsibility for miscalculating, so they use you instead to cover for their mistakes or just for their sheer laziness.  Sometimes it is just family members who stuck you in a box a long time ago and refuse to see that you are an independent person and not their tool to use whenever they want to, with the excuse that “family” should come first.

NO – YOU come first!  If you don’t take care of yourself, no one else will!

There are so many ways We see those we Love being used and abused by others that We love.  Those others who would walk all over them, those others who enjoy stealing someone else’s power just so they don’t have to use their own resources.

Be strong; We know you can be, and push back these requests one by one.  You don’t have to change your whole world in one day, but you can change it over time by making one choice after another to HONOR YOU, to do for yourself what others would have you do for them, and most of all, by taking back your power from others and putting that energy into your own life.

We know you may feel hesitant or even afraid to look at the situations in your life like this. Look at where you can make the first choice and follow through on what you want to do, consistently and patiently.  It will take others time to realize you are serious.  They will want to fall back into their pattern of making you take on their responsibility by abdicating your power to them, and they will test your resolve time after time.

Stay strong and be consistent.  Don’t waver, don’t give in “just this one time” because that one time is one time too many for you to give away your personal power.  Refusing to participate in the situation and take back your power by giving yourself the chance to do what you need to do.

Does your aunt need you to take her to the store but it is not a good time for you?  Don’t allow anyone to badger you into doing something for them that hurts you.  If someone truly cared about you, they would work cooperatively with you for you both to achieve what needs to be done.  They would not demand you drop everything for them nor would they tell you that they are more important than you are.

Maybe this is the first time you ever considered this action to have a choice.  Wonderful! You are now growing by looking and analyzing situations and seeing how they are Good for you.  Keep doing it! Analyze every request, every demand, every action that others take for granted that you will do and start making changes in your life.

Don’t allow your children to walk all over you and expect you to do everything.  There is no such thing as a “super parent” but there are parents who raise children with entitled attitudes.  This does not serve your children at all, for in the future they will have to learn the hard lesson that they alone are the one responsible for feeding, clothing, and housing themselves.  What will happen to them when you are no longer able to give them everything they desire?

For those relatives who demand you do everything for them, start practicing saying “no” in the mirror.  Practice makes perfect.  We are with you and We will support you entirely. For those who have co-workers who want you to drop your work to help them do theirs, don’t.  You deserve recognition for the work you do and if someone else gets the praise for work you did then you are not serving you, your co-worker, or your employer.

You are special and unique and We Love you and want you to grow to Love yourself unconditionally as well.

Be strong.  Be authentic.  Be transparent in all you do, for when you live a life of complete honesty that which is inherent within you, your Divine Presence, shall shine forth and greet the Divine Presence in those around you as well.  You are each individual on the Human Plane, but when you are returned to the Spiritual Plane you will remember that you all are One.

Respect that; together but separate.  Each worthy of living this lifetime to the best of your abilities with your free will choices.  Trust that regardless of the situation, when you live openly and honestly you will attract those into your life who live the same way and your life situations will change to reflect that honesty as well. For each deserves to live and be loved and to grow and to change.  No one should stagnate when you have a world of experiences to be had!

We are with you!  We love you and We are always here – with you and supporting you.  Call upon Us when you need Us and We will be with you in an instant.

Blessings to you.

©2016 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

When Change is Scary

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

Bitterness, resentment, and envy are all emotions based from the fear of lack.  Humans envy someone whom they perceive as having what they themselves desire.  Resentment builds towards those who humans feel have something that they themselves are entitled to.  Bitterness erupts from situations where the perception of “should” was paramount in the mind of the holder.  “I should have received that promotion” or “I should have been born rich” are two typical statements We Angelics here a lot.

Should is an ugly word for humans; it creates division instead of togetherness.  It represents entitlement instead of humbleness.  It is a viewpoint of judgment instead of compassion.

When you are incarnated into the human form, there is no “should”.  There are lots of possibilities and very few guarantees, though, which will help to provide opportunity to you via the choices you make.  Many life experiences do not have free will, yet humans have free will and waste it prodigiously with regrets, resentments, and self hatred.

It is time for you to step back away from these poorly conceived ideas in your mind and realize the one Truth that you live by – you are having a human experience and that experience is created by you – by your choices, by your actions, and by your non-actions.

Only you can change the life you are living, so if you are miserable then it is up to you to make the choices to change it.  Even if you end up temporarily in an uncertain situation, is that not better than being miserable?  How long are you going to be miserable before you take the action to change your circumstances?

The first action humans should take is this – look inside.  Quiet your mind and ask within you for help, for guidance.  These things are present always within you – from your High Self, from your Guides, and from your Angelics.  We all work as a Team to help you through this life experience, but when you are not receptive and not open to Us or Our Messages, then you are cutting yourself off from Love and Support to help you through.

If you still do not feel or hear anything, then we suggest you look carefully at your situation and make plans to change it.  Are you residing somewhere that is painful to you? If so, find a way to make a change.  Look up resources outside of your family if you must, for they exist.  You are not looking for them, but they are there.

Ask for help – it exists. You are not the first person to experience what you are experiencing and you do not deserve to stay in a place of misery.  You have to be your own advocate.  Yes, it may very well be scary.  We know this, and We are here for you.  We will share Our Love for you with you, so remember you are Loved.  You are worthy of living a good life – We know this even if you do not.

Living in a comfortable situation while you are unhappy is still being miserable.  Do not look at what “others have” compared to what you have.  Do not look upon others as “more fortunate” or “lucky” to have what they have.  You only see the outer shell of their life – not their whole life. They could be miserable and staying put because they are afraid if they leave their comfortable home they will not have a comfortable home again.

Yet We say to you – they are not happy, so what good is a comfortable home when you are miserable?  Better to be living in a not-so-nice place and be happy with yourself than living in comfort with someone you do not respect, someone who does not respect you, and which you daily endure hurts – physical, emotional, or mental.

Fear is the only thing holding you back.  The opposite of Fear is Love.  And Love is everywhere you look for it – you only have to be open to receiving for it to be present.  You are Loved and where there is Love and Life, there is Hope for change.  Not from others – never from others. Hope exists within you, FOR YOU.  You are the one to change – not anyone else.  Know that regardless of how daunting it is, there is a way for you to change your life.  Be not afraid, for We are with you at all times.  Call upon Us and We will feed our strength into you.

Do not believe the Lies told to you.  Not the lies told to you by others that you are unlovable or unworthy of love; not the lies that you will never be able to make it on your own or that you are too stupid to do anything right.  These lies are told to you by those who wish to manipulate you into staying put, because you make their life better.  They do not make your life better – you make their life better.  So make the changes necessary because you deserve to have a life where you are making your own life better.

These lies come from many sources – your family members, your mate/partner, your friends, and even inside your own head.  For all too long you have listened and believed these lies so they echo within you.  Set them aside and believe US now – you are Loved. You are worthy. You will be JUST FINE at the end because you are making choices for yourself, for you to be happy.

You are Loved.  We are here with you, Beloved Ones.  Change can be large or small.  Even changes that seem insignificant can have great impact upon you and your life.  Do what you need to make these changes and set your fear aside.  Life does not have to be about hate and conflict, pain and manipulation, force and dominance.  Life is about choice and it is time for you to choose yourself above any other, for only when you help yourself can you help the others in your life.  Choose you.

You are Loved.  Call upon us, Beloved, and We will flood you with Love and Support always.

We Love you unconditionally.

Living the Human Experience

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

What is the purpose of being human?  For those who have started on the path to wondering why you came here, allow us to supply you with some things to consider.

In the initial stages of waking up from the mind sleep that the majority still experience, most humans realize that the beliefs and concepts taught to them by their parents, religious establishments, and leaders are incorrect.  Some ideas are realized to be complete fabrications, lies stretched beyond comprehension in an effort to stop questions from occurring within the minds of those who are starting to question.

During this particular stage of the process, many people experience anger and even rage that their parents and those they respected would use them with such ill intent.  It is not Our intention to encourage that anger.  The root of anger is Fear and We do not want you to stay rooted in Fear.  Fear helps no one and in fact, will stop your thinking and analyzing processes.

Instead, We encourage you to feel compassion for those who taught you these things, for the Truth is that few humans are awake and fewer of those have the courage to attempt to stop the machine called indoctrination from moving forward.  The only way it can be stopped is to stop it for yourself.  Look, question, gather facts and information, and allow your experiences to help you along the way.  We Angelics, your Spirit Guides, your High Self, and the Creator all assist you with your life experiences to help provide you with opportunities for you to awaken out of the Human Mind Sleep state.

Now that you have awoken and are looking at your life, please know you are not alone in questioning why you are here.  The human world is chaotic and difficult and emotionally bruising.  It is a place to allow a multitude of experiences for each human from birth to death and each human’s life starts out the same – as an infant.

When your High Self created your Life’s Blueprint, many things were taken into account. Many contracts and agreements were established with soul family members, with other souls with whom you experienced other lifetimes, with the Ascended Masters and the Angelics whose families you would be a part of during this lifetime.  It is no accident that you are exactly as you are – it is part of the design, the result of much great work to create a lifetime of opportunities for you to experience and make choices and experience the result of those choices.

Humans, out of all the Creator’s designs, are blessed with the greatest emotional range and capacity.  No other race or species than humans have the ability to feel the multitude of emotions.  It is considered a great honor when the High Self has a lifetime blessed by the Creator; it is then the High Self’s responsibility to choose a piece of itself to incarnate on this planet for there are many pieces of itself that wish to have this opportunity.

It may seem that there are many humans on this planet today, so of course this is nothing but a common occurrence, but I assure you it is not.  There are a multitude of Souls and High Selves that contribute to the population in the human environment, but that is temporary for this particular human experience.  Many other human experiences have a great number less humans present. Each human lifetime is designed – including the type of human experience needed to add to the High Self, which then adds to the Soul and Over Soul.  These criteria dictate the when and where the human life takes place.

So We circle back to the “why am I here” question.  What is my life purpose?  Each human has many life purposes, many goals, many lessons to learn.  Many lessons are shared lessons, shared with the other humans existing at the same time as you do.  But other lessons are created for your life plan and may be very different from those around you.

Many times humans feel abused, sorry for themselves when they believe their life is not perfect, it is not like the person across the street’s life.  Comparing your life to another’s serves no purpose other than to feed self-pity and victimization.  These are emotions you are capable of feelings, but they will not assist you in growing through your experience, so We encourage you to process through those emotions as quickly as you can and get back on track.

What is your motivation?  Why should you even get out of bed in the morning, We hear you ask?  Each human was provided with a construct, called the Ego, that assists with survival. It was learned during the beginning stages humans required some assistance to survive through the traumas that can occur.  There is no sin in ending one’s life, but it does cut short the purpose of being there and it can incur Karma with those agreements and contracts you were unable to meet or complete.  But still, each human has Free Will and being selfish is a condition the average human exhibits.

So again, what is your life purpose?  In simple terms, to discover who you are.  To discover the TRUE YOU, the one that has been buried by conditioning.  To uncover the You that is the real You instead of the You that was forced into a box a long time ago.  To shed the ideas you believe are Truth and return to a state of questioning, until you resonate with your personal Truth.  Your personal Truth shall set you free; it will allow you to grow and experience and Love, but it takes time.  It takes baby steps along the way, for shedding the norms, the mores, the conditioning of a lifetime takes a lot of work.

So what is your purpose?  To heal.  To uncover your True You.  To Grow.  To discover within you all the wonderful things you were designed to be, to experience, to share.  To rediscover the connection within you to the Creator, for it exists within every human.  To feel joy, love, and gratitude for the gift called Human Experience.

This takes work.  All too often humans want immediate results, instant gratification.  We know that, and all We can do is counsel patience and suggest you seek Wisdom. Wisdom is highly underrated by humans, yet it is the one thing for which each person has a capacity. Not the exact same wisdom, but each person has the capacity as it is essential for personal growth.  Wisdom is the internal teacher, it helps humans to learn from mistakes and to make reasoned choices.  Wisdom allows humans to stay alive, to grow, and to recognize opportunities when they are present.

So, you want to know your Life Purpose?  We Angelics suggest you start with the most basic of lessons – uncover the True You from under the conditioned You.  Examine everything – every thought you have, every belief you possess, every idea that tells you who you are.  And when you think you are done, start again.  For the Truth is, everyone around is just like you.  There are no differences other than superficial ones.  No one is “more special” or “better” or “perfect” because the reality you live in is a construct designed to provide an experience.  And the participants in that experience come from the same spiritual essence that created your reality.

So, where you think you are better than others, examine that closely.  Where you think you are worse off than others, examine that closely too.  Examine everything and then, when you have done that twice over ask again why you might be having the human experience.

You have much to gain by this work.  Spiritual Growth is not for the fainthearted, fortitude is required.  Dig within yourself and We Angelics, your Guides, High Self, Spirit, and the Creator will all be supporting you with Love and Joy.

We are here with you always through your human experience.  Call upon Us and allow Us to assist you as We can, for We Love You unconditionally.

Where Love exists, Fear cannot

Greetings, Beloved Ones,

I want to address something that has come up quite a bit lately.  We Angelics are ever so happy when our Beloved Ones take a step on their personal healing path, and We are ever so happy when You take a step on your Life Path.  We know these things bring you Joy and Happiness and Satisfaction and We know this adds to your overall well-being.

We Angelics all come from the Creator; the Creator made each of us very similar, but different.  We each have a specialty to assist humans and other beings from the Creator and We love to work together.  We love nothing better than to meld our energy together to work as in Unity to help those We Love heal, grow, and develop.

We are happy when you call upon one of Us, or many of Us, or ALL of US for assistance!  We know that humans develop feelings of kinship with one or another of the Families as your Blueprints are made to do so, but let Us clarify something for you.  We feel Love – a deep, profound Love for all of you.  We do not have the capacity to be jealous or spiteful or resentful if you choose to call upon one or the other of Us.  We are just delighted when you DO call upon Us for assistance so that We can help as best We can.

Many times your human culture has twisted and warped ideas about who the Angelics are; sometimes it is because humans are so prone to anthropomorphism.  Please understand – this does not anger us either for We are not capable of that emotion either.  We are energy beings designed by the Creator to do many things, and one of those things is to Love you unconditionally.

We wish you would take that approach to yourselves – you are each lovable, wonderful beings of Light in human form and yet instead of seeing your similarities you focus on the differences between you.  Instead of seeing the differences and diversities as blessings that add to the whole, humans use them to separate and slander each other.  This is your choice, of course, as you have Free Will during your human lifetime, but We would encourage you to instead look for the Love Spark within each fellow human you encounter.

Love grows stronger and spreads more each time it is shared.  Take a moment and smile at someone as you pass by them.  Greet someone with happiness instead of projecting your overall dissatisfaction to the world.  Learn to be happy just by yourself, learn to be content with what you have, and learn to share the Love, Joy, and Happiness that is inherent within your core being.  These things will help others during their day as well as help you grow and expand your awareness of self and the Universe.

Being One with the Creator does not mean exclusively during meditation time.  You must walk what you learn, what you know, what you believe if you truly wish to grow and expand your vibration.  For Spiritual Growth and Harmony you must work every day to see the true world around you and not just the world projected by those who exist in Fear.  Fear lies to all who listen and Fear will tell you that you are nothing, that you are not worth anything, and that you are better off dead.  These are lies – you are here for an experience because you are Loved.  Chosen to be on the earth plane so that you can grow through all the things that a human can experience – positive and negative alike.

So yes, you are worthy!

You are LOVED!

You are not alone – We are here with you every moment of every day.

We Love YOU just as you are and for ALL that you ARE!

Remember this the next time you look at someone and your insecurity whispers in your ear, telling you that she is better than you, that he is smarter than you, that they are more capable than you – whatever triggers the Fear activates within you to make you feel LESS.

Gather those thoughts in your hands and look at them closely!  They are LIES – they are not the truth, but you have put so much energy into them all your life that it will take a few moments like this to release those fears and replace them with loving thoughts for yourself.

You are Loved by the Angelics and the Creator!  Why would you compare yourself to anyone else?  Each human is equally loved with a love that is absolute, incomparable, and equal to nothing else.  Embrace the idea of your worthiness, embrace your lovableness, embrace that you are exactly as you were designed to be and soak up the Love of the Creator.

Where Love exists, Fear cannot.  Don’t place your energy in the column for Fear – use the whole page for Love.  And the next page.  And the next.  For you ARE LOVED!

We are here with you, Beloved Ones.  Take the Love that is offered to you and GROW!

Share the Love during times of Fear

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

There is much unrest and unease within your current roles in human society.  Many of you are being tested and pushed, prodded and poked.  Do not deride those undergoing confusion and pain, for this process of enlightenment is not one that is easily understood by the uninitiated.

Many of you speak of living an authentic life – but what happens to one of you when that which has been hidden and suppressed is suddenly coaxed out of the safety within?  Without any understanding of what is happening?  The general reaction among humans is fear.

Fear is the opposite of Love.  Fear is very real to many individuals because they do not understand that they are Loved unconditionally.  They believe that they are unlovable and unworthy of Love, so they protect themselves with emotional and psychological barriers which, in turn, create a barrier against Love.

In circumstances such as what your human plane is going through now and will continue to go through in the next few years, it is important to understand that Fear can destabilize environments and cultural situations.  Fear can bring about the exact opposite of growth.

Yet growth is exactly what is being presented to these individuals who react with Fear.  Growth is a process of letting go, a process to unearth that which has been suppressed, a process that is not quick either, but in the end provides great opportunities.

Look around you, Beloved Ones.  See with your heart – not your eyes and not your ears.  See with your hearts and feel compassion for those who are reacting to the pain and confusion that is within themselves caused by the pieces of themselves long buried trying to emerge.  Like a butterfly, that which is within will slowly unfold and be obvious, but until the process is complete it is not obvious what is taking place.

Many humans are oblivious to the concept of “all is one”, even though you are all One, belong to One, and will return to the state of Oneness from which you are currently unable to fully access.  Many of these individuals struggling with Fear believe they are absolutely alone, have rejected a concept of Love, and only resonate to that which is the detritus within them leading them by the nose.

When you see these individuals, do not hate them, or feed their fear, or deride them for each human has his or her Path to Oneness to achieve.  Instead, tap into your Lower Hearth Chakra and feel compassion and empathy for them.  Just as you would help an individual who was unseeing cross a busy intersection realize that these individuals need to be guided even more so.

Compassion is a two-way street.  In the beginning you had to learn compassion for yourself to be able to forgive yourself and begin your own healing process.  Now that you have that understanding it is time to share that compassion with those around you who are mired in Fear.

Be gentle, help them in whatever way is possible as they explore their process and uncover their own truth.  Guide with support instead of doctrine, lead them over the crevasses so they can See that others’ truth is valid as well as their own, be the Voice of Love during times of strife, anxiety, Fear, and chaos, be the Lighthouse beacon shining the Love of the Creator throughout the dark night of chaos about to consume you.

And above all, live the authentic you – do not allow Fear to cover that which is yours or you.  You have the Love and Support of your Guides, the Ascended Masters, the Angelics, and the Light Beings and you know you are not alone.

You are never Alone.

You are Loved beyond Measure.

You are One with the Universe.

You are One with the Creator.

Be Love.

Live Hope.

Be Compassionate.

Share the Love.

 

Our Love is Always and Forever

Greetings Beloved Ones.

It is a time of change and growth in your world.  So many opportunities exist and the choices your free will makes will guide your path.  We Angelics want you to know that regardless of what you choose, We are here to Support and Love you – For Always and Forever.

We can say this because Our Love is Constant, a gift to you from the Creator and it is a blessing We are Happy to enjoy.

There was a time, an environment, where humans could not Feel the Love the Angelics had for them.  Humans were cruel to each other and did not realize that Love existed in so many ways.  Then the Creator made a change and allowed Us to interact with humans.  And We Rejoiced!

it is true that not many humans acknowledge our presence, but that does not matter for Our Love for YOU is constant, enduring, and exists Always and Forever.

As you enter this time of your life, as you enter this ending of this calendar year, take a moment to reflect – NOT on the things you did not do, but that you are here and able to take a moment to realize that you are Loved.

Regardless of where you are, regardless of your life circumstances today you exist and within this moment is the seed of creativity, the seed of change, the seed of your Free Will!

Despair exists when separation from the Creator exists.  If you feel despair and sadness now, it is time to look within for the path to the Creator exists within each human.  The path is the promise the Creator made to you when you were allowed to incarnate on the human plane.

Seek out the Love that exists within your Heart Center; it is there and cannot be extinguished no matter how dark you perceive your life to be. There is nothing in your world and no choice that you might make that would turn the Creator away from you.

The Creator Loves you exactly as you are.  Your life on the human plane is a gift the Creator has given to you to experience.  When you return to the Creator after this life is over do not fear for the Creator will embrace you fully regardless of the choices you made for that is the promise the Creator made with you.

Do not listen to those who wish to make you dislike yourself or hate yourself.  Listen deep within to the voice of the Creator within you.  Feel the rhythm of the Love that hums inside you – the connection to the Light is there and it is strong.

We say this repeatedly because it cannot be said enough – you are Loved.  Your world is dark and filled with those who would put you into a bubble of fear.  Do not allow them to lock you away.  Do not allow them to diminish the Light that exists within you.  Do not allow them to crush your Spirit and rip away the idea that you are worthy of Love.

If possible, make the change in your life to remove the presence of those who would do this to you.  You deserve to be surrounded by those who accept and love you for who you are and if you are in an environment where that is not the case, please consider making the choice to leave it.

We are aware that some individuals do not have the ability to leave these environments and We are Always with them, Supporting them, Succoring them during this time.  For those who have the ability to make choices and change, We are with you as well!  Our Love is Always and Forever AND it is Infinite!  We do not limit who we Love for that is not the way of the Creator.

Take this moment to close your eyes and breathe in slowly.  Put yourself into a light meditative state and allow Us to Commune with you, to Share our Love for you with you.  Be in this moment with Us at this time, now. Breathe and Be.

And most of all, remember We Love you Always and Forever.

We Love You Always

Greetings Beloved Ones!

We greet you with Light and Love and ask you to receive now the Highest Vibration of Love the Angelics can send to you, through the blessings and Grace of the Creator.

We were approached this week with the denouncement that it is a lie that everything happens for a reason.  The thought frame behind the decision it was a lie was that if the Creator truly loved everyone he/she would not allow pain and suffering to happen.

We have touched before on this thought frame, but We angelics would like to address it again. Human life is not designed to be “paradise”.  You left a state of love and joy to come to the earth plane for an experience of relatively short duration to experience all emotions and experience many different opportunities.  Sometimes these opportunities are viewed negatively, as they may cause one to feel sensations and emotions that, through a particular perspective, are viewed as pain.

The Creator gave humans on this plane of existence the opportunity to feel the most extensive range of emotions of all the lifeforms the Creator brought into life.  The Creator views these emotions as a blessing – not a curse and not a punishment.

When your life leads you into a path where you may suffer pain on the physical or emotional level, this does not mean that you “deserved to be hurt”; and it certainly does not mean that you should choose the path of the victim.  Emotions should be honored and each person should allow themselves time to process the emotional and physical situation that one finds oneself in.  But there is a difference between processing and wallowing.

Some humans have a tendency to wallow in their experience, never pulling themselves out of their pity poo poo pile and looking at their life and situation with the eyes of clarity.  Humans create their own reality and thus everything does happen for a reason.  It just may be a reason that is not immediately clear to the one experiencing the situation.

Many times we Angelics are called upon for assistance to obtain this or that.  Many times it is for us to find a way to funnel wealth, success, and love to people.  Of course, We don’t do this because it is not our place to change one’s life.  We provide love and support to you each, of course, and we always help provide the energy for you to make change happen in your life – but we will never do it for you.

If you have a guide who says they can make it happen, please call upon my brother Michael to rid yourself of the demon attached to you.

Many times humans experience loss, betrayal, and pain because another human has decided to act in a way that results in a way one would not choose.  If one shifts his or her perspective to accept that each person has the right to live his or her life as they choose and not strictly to benefit one, it is easier to accept the changes that happen easily and effortlessly.

Undo attachment upon other’s choices and other’s lives impact your ability to live your life to the fullest ability.  Each human should focus their love of their own life through meditation and use the energy to manifest that which is in their highest and best good in their life.  Yes, change will happen as a result, but when the dust settles you will find that you are in a much happier place as you will be in alignment with your higher self and your blueprint for this lifetime.

Remember – all change is not shouldered alone.  We angelics are here for you during all your days and nights.  You are never alone and when you feel fearful or anxious, call upon us and we will surround you with the love and support we can provide.

Take a moment now, while reading these words, and do just that.  Close your eyes and call upon your angelics, guides, and guardians to surround you with the love and light of the Creator.  Breathe the love and light in and allow it to ease your anxiety, ease your suffering, ease your loneliness.  You are not alone and you are not unloved.

Change is never insurmountable.  Sometimes extreme discomfort is required because you have entrenched yourself into your life ‘as is’ and you need a ‘rude awakening’ moment to help you realize that you are not living your life in alignment with the Creator and your higher self.

When you find yourself shifting into a place of self pity, remember you are not alone.  We are here with you.  Call upon us to help you during this time.  We can help you shift your perspective and help you see the patterns of your life that you live that create negative events.  The Angelics will never lock you into a place of suffering – you put yourself into that place of suffering.  We Angelics are here to help you shift out of that dark place and into a place of love and light.

Always remember we are here for you at all times but most especially when your life feels dark and desolate.  Regardless of what else you may feel or hear we NEVER desert you.  You must reach through the walls of pain to us and we will meet you as soon as you open your mind to the idea that we are there.  Regardless of what you are experiencing – pain, depression, suicidal thoughts, inflicting pain upon yourself – we are here.  And we love you just as you are and we love you for all that you can be.  We will never give up on you and we will provide you with the shelter available to you through the love of the Creator.

And if you are having a wonderful life we are also here with you.  We love you – regardless of the life you experience, always.

Blessings to you!

Be the Light and Face of Love

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

The time of seasonal change is upon you, and I wanted to share a message regarding change.  Many things change in the human environment.  The weather, schools, jobs, decor, friends, partners, and yourself.  You yourself are at the root of all change for it is your Free Will that creates your reality and your choices and your non-choices instigate change.

One thing that does not change is the Love of the Creator.  The Creator Loves you regardless of your clothes, hair, career, friends, or family.  The Creator Loves you regardless of what your choices and your non-choices are.  The Love of the Creator is the only Constant in this Universe and regardless of where you are, what you do, where you go and what you choose nothing can change that.

Humans all too frequently have idealized concepts of Love.  Love is everlasting, Love is exciting, Love is Calm and Peaceful, Love is this or that.  Regardless of how you feel about yourself or your newest special friend, the Creator Loves you.  We Angelics Love you.

We ask you to reach inside yourself and feel the Love we have for you and for you to extend that Love to yourself.  Take this moment, right now, and allow that Love to move through you.  Let the Love heal old wounds and release the things which do not belong with you any longer to the Light.  Free yourself from the things that bind you to a place of unhappiness, regret, and misery.  The things in the past that affected you helped you create the person you are today; they helped create the reality you exist in today.  For all that is behind you has created the person the Creator Loved and continues to Love.

It is time to Love yourself, “faults and defects” and everything else mixed up together in the wonderful being that you are.

Being on the earth plane may feel like a punishment; it may feel as if you are serving an unending cycle of servitude, but please stop thinking that way.  Your incarnation on this plane of existence is NOT a punishment.  Your Higher Self planned it and you agreed to it with joy and anticipation.  Life on the earth plane can be very challenging, very stimulating, very trying even – but you came here because of the opportunity of experience and growth.

Allow yourself to grow now, within the Love of the Creator, and allow yourself to move past the perceived failures.  Let those “failures” become moments of experience that have prompted you to become a better person, a kinder person, a person who has empathy for those in similar circumstances.  Allow yourself to grow higher in vibration by absorbing in the Love of the Creator.

As you grow higher in vibration, your ability to commune more with the Creator will increase and you will be able to absorb more Love and increase the opportunity to repeat this process.  Allow the Creator to Love you and allow yourself to Love yourself.  No one on the earth plane is perfect and no one is meant to be perfect.  Perfection is not the end game, not the goal at the end.  Growth is the goal and many experiences are still in front of you to prompt this growth.

Focus now on the Love that is surrounding you, filling you, freeing you from the chains you create in your mind.  Allow the Love to lower the barricades you have placed around you.  This will not make you vulnerable, no!  Instead it allows you to receive more Love in different ways.  As you Love yourself more, you realize that everyone has a job in this world and it is not your job to judge them or to judge yourself.  Your job, right now, at this moment, is to Love.

Become the Love of the Creator personified.  Allow the Love to Flow through you and into all that you meet today, whether you greet that person face to face, over the telephone, or electronically.  Allow the Love to flow from you to touch all those who Need the Love of the Creator in their Lives.  Be the Face of Love so to give Hope to those who have forgotten what Hope is.

Shine your Light brightly this day, Beloved Ones.

We are with you always.