Knowledge and Wisdom lead to Trust

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

There are many instances of emotional pain that one lives while in human form.  Starting from a small child until the day you pass, you have many opportunities to experience situations that hurt your feelings in a myriad of ways.  Taking the pain you feel in these situations (instead of focusing on the pain) and allowing your perspective to shift to one of knowledge is very important, and one you may not have learned from your parents while growing up.

When you are a child, you do not have the emotional maturity to understand that people make mistakes and sometimes those mistakes lead to others’ feelings being hurt.  As you experience yourself making the same type of mistake and thus you have the opportunity to develop Wisdom.

We acknowledge the pain you felt during the experience and We tried to support you as best possible, and as appropriate.  Eventually you will experience situations where you hurt others’ feelings instead of yours being the hurt feelings.  Would it not be more conducive to your life to be able to look at a situation from a perspective where you can admit everyone is human, no one is perfect, and thus everyone can and will make mistakes that hurt others.  Knowledge comes from being able to look at experiences where you have experienced pain and acknowledge that your position, your side of the situation is not the only one, and you make an effort to understand the other person’s position.

When you allow that other humans have the same right as you do to have hurt feelings and act upon those hurt feelings, you can then develop compassion for them.  You do not have to allow others to hurt you repeatedly just because you can understand their position or mindset.  You are always responsible for your life and you are the one who makes your Free Will choices.

Being a ‘doormat’ for someone else to abuse emotionally, mentally, or physically is not a position We would choose for you to experience, but We cannot stop you if this is your choice.  Allowing someone to abuse you, even if you see their perspective, is not healthy for you.  The goal is to recognize with compassion that someone else may be hurting or they may not have the emotional maturity to understand that their behavior hurts others and then take appropriate steps to take care of yourself, physically, mentally, and emotionally.

A calm (if possible) conversation with the individual who hurt your feelings to ask them why they did the actions that hurt you is an excellent way to start.  That person may already regret what he/she did and is only looking out for a way to express their apology to you.  This is the ‘best case scenario’ and will allow you to both express your feelings and the mindset you each had when entering into the situation to begin with.  Sharing can lead to mutual respect and a commitment to act differently if and when a similar situation arises.

Often the best case scenario is not the one that is experienced.  Many humans choose to be reactionary and to blame others’ when the person shares that he or she had hurt their feelings.  It is best to recognize that this person is emotionally immature, either because they were raised in this manner and not taught to grow this aspect of themselves, or because they choose to stay this way instead of maturing for whatever purpose they feel benefits them.

It is also a sad fact that many people are unable to find the joy in being human, and develop behavioral patterns that are unhealthy to themselves and those around them. This is where the Knowledge you have gained about the person becomes Wisdom as you apply it to your interactions with this person.  Just as you would look at a situation where you were the adult caring for a child and being responsible for keeping them safe, you should look at the interactions you have with people who hurt your feelings and recognize how you can keep yourself safe.

As you grow and develop your own emotional maturity, others’ opinions and thoughts will have minimal to no impact upon you, as you have become and individual who loves yourself and takes care of yourself in a healthy way, regardless of others’ whims and behaviors.  Scientists perform test after test to verify that the results will be the same and this is considered to be logical. They do the scientific test and the result is the same when the same situation is repeated.

You can do the same application of logic towards your emotional health and welfare.  You step back and analyze the person’s behavior and you take appropriate steps to protect yourself.

An example.  You have a friend who is fun to go out with, but once she has consumed a few glasses of wine, her behavior changes and she becomes rude to those around her.  She lashes out at her friends and says hurtful things which ruins the evening for everyone. The next day she says it was ‘the wine’ talking and that she did not mean what she said.

The next time you have an interaction with her and she drinks, what you observe will provide you with Knowledge about her behavior.  If her behavior is the same, then you have gained in Knowledge that your friend chooses to drink alcohol even though she knows she says hurtful things to others when she drinks.  This is Knowledge in action.  If the person (Y) drinks (X) and the behavior is always (C) then Y+X=C.  If you remove X and the person behaves in a manner consistent with Y, then you know her ugly words and actions come from her taking in X.

The Wise thing for you to do now and in the future if you continue to want to associate with her is to avoid situations where she has access to alcoholic beverages, or the social situations take place alcohol is not present.  Thus no one is subjected to her ugliness and rudeness because she has not drank.  She has refused to take responsibility for her behavior and so now you create the environment that will protect you.

This is a simple situation.  We realize that the human experience can and will throw things more complex your way; if you remember this situation and apply the X and the Y and the Z to your situation, it will help remove emotions from the situation and allow you to examine what took place, thus you will gain Knowledge.  Wisdom is the act of applying your Knowledge to situations.  Individual personalities will vary as will backgrounds, but when you use Knowledge to build your life you can eliminate unnecessary situations that hurt your feelings.

We know, if only life were this simple.  The most significant part of all interactions between two people is whether you have matured emotionally.  Emotional Maturity is similar to physical maturity.  As you grow older physically, your body develops from that of a baby to an adult. At the same time, your emotional capacity and understanding should grow from that of a baby to an adult.  As you grow emotionally and develop Knowledge and Wisdom along the way, you will discover Trust.

Many situations you will have zero control over in your life.  As a child you are subject to the vagaries of your parents. You cannot stop them from their chosen actions, but you can learn from them.  As you become an adult, you then experience your own life situations which provide you with Knowledge and Wisdom.  Knowledge and Wisdom allows you to understand that all things take place as lessons to help you grow, for that is the True purpose behind your human existence.

You may be wracked with regret and shame for your past actions, but it is up to you to review those situations with the eye of Knowledge.  Put your understanding of X+Y=Z into reviewing your past and develop your Knowledge of Self.  Use Wisdom to accept your past behaviors where you hurt others, and allow yourself to see who truly you were in that part of your life.  You are the only person responsible for your actions and non-actions. Wisdom will allow you to use those past situations of shame and regret to grow emotionally in new ways. Remove your feelings from the situations and look clinically at what you have done and why you did them.

Knowledge will also lead you to determine what behaviors you currently exhibit that are hurting those around you. No human is perfect, and as a result of that imperfection all humans hurt other people’s feelings.  Review each incident as the scientist who can say
X +Y+ Z. Wisdom will help you accept those current behaviors and assist you with changing them to where you don’t hurt others.

You can, however, choose to stay stuck in the adolescent phase and not take responsibility for your actions and how you hurt others.  This too, is a choice you have the ability to make. We Angelics will still Love you.  Those around you may not, but We will always Love you and We respect your Free Will choices.

When you review past situations where your feelings were hurt, Beloved Ones, for that is what emotional maturity will help you do, and you look at these experiences from the perspective that what the person did had nothing to do with you, and that their behavior is the result of their Free Will choices, then that perspective will shift to Trust.  Trust occurs when you realize that all things happen for a reason, even if you cannot see the reason clearly, at that point in time or even at all.

Many things are taken into consideration by the Creator when your Life Plan is reviewed. Every experience you will ever have has already been seen by the Creator as well as every choice you could ever make.  When you realize that this is So, then you can develop your Trust that there is nothing that falls outside of the Plan.

For those individuals who say, “It is God’s Will that X happened” to sooth over a negative situation, We Angelics say to you the Creator reviewed all that can happen and your life experience was approved.  The Creator does not prevent anyone from hurt or pain because then a major growth impetus would be removed and stagnation would occur.  The better way to say it is, “The Creator approved your experiences to happen”.

Part of each experience is an opportunity for you to learn to love yourself and to value yourself.  While not every scenario is in your control, how you react to it is.  How you react and how you is always your Free Will.  Now it is up to you to use your Free Will and decide how you are going to live your life which is the way it is because your choices from your experiences.

It is never too late to grow.  We Angelics are here, and We will support you always.  We Love you Unconditionally for We know the bright, loving being that you are when you are in True Form and We see the experiences you have here on the Earth Plane.  You are Loved and Valued even when you don’t Love and Value yourself.

Blessings to you, Beloved Ones.

 

 

 

©2016 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

 

When the Truth Escapes You

Greetings Beloved Ones,

Today is a beautiful day here in the adventure of your life!  We Angelics can only watch in wonder as humans live their day to day lives, learning and growing in your world, becoming for a short time, a Presence all unto yourself until the time you return to Spirit.

Humans have a difficult time with the Separation from Spirit and because of the nature of your adventure here on the Earth Plane, you are made to forget the First Truth – that you are a Spiritual Presence and that this experience is a blink of the eye and soon you will be back with Us, back to where you Belong.

We want to tell you that despair and sickness and illness are mighty weights upon the shoulders of humans, but it is part of being human.  To avoid death at all costs is not possible regardless of what improvements your science has.  Everyone returns to Spirit and it is not a bad thing, for you are returning to a place of Love where you belong and are Loved Unconditionally.

But this is why the First Truth exists – because if you knew where you came from with absolute certainty you would never be able to have the journey you are having there.  In the Beginning, when the Creator made your world and made the first of humanity the First Truth was not put into place.  Those who came down went through the Separation process, but remembering who they were and where they came from was a terrible burden, for they could not feel the Love as humans.  Many returned to Spirit after just a short time, so the First Truth was put into place to allow the Spiritual Presences there to have their adventure, their experiences.

There area number of Truths that exist about your reality that you don’t know at this time. And as with the First Truth, they were put into place for a reason.  But there is a Truth that should be obvious to all when you gaze around your planet.

The Creator LOVES Diversity.  The Creator made thousands of different plants and animals, the same but different.  They serve purposes and have their time there on the planet, but there are so many different types of animals and plants because the Creator LOVES Diversity.  If everything was the same there would not be anything new or different to experience.

Such as it is with the Human Race.  The basics are all the same, but there are small differences because the Creator LOVES Diversity.  Cultures and Societies have risen and fallen during the history of the Earth Plane.  Some based upon beliefs and some based upon wealth and some based upon pigmentation.

The Creator Loves Each Human Absolutely and Completely.  The Creator will not tell you how to live the short life you have on this planet for the Creator has seen every nuance of every experience and decision you could make there.  Every lifetime was reviewed completely prior to the Creator’s approval to become human.  Regardless of the actions taken, regardless of the pain inflicted, regardless of what your human religions have labeled as “sin” to attempt to corral humans into particular behaviors the Creator Loves Each Human Absolutely and Completely.

We try to help you feel the Love that you have Separated from temporarily, to sustain you and give you strength, to help you realize you are not alone and that you are LOVED.  But much beyond that We cannot interfere with your experiences there.  Please know that each of you has a team working with you, supporting you, loving you unconditionally and you are NEVER ALONE.

The simple Truth of your existence is to experience reality without the Love you feel when you are back with Us, back with Spirit.  There is no judgement placed upon what you do on the Earth plane, though there is hope that you learn and grow.

But it is easy for you to not look within, to not look to the Love and Support that flows through you daily.  It is easy for you to forget that diversity is the desire of the Creator. That each human is loved unconditionally.  That you all come from the same place, are truly not separated from each other on the planet, and that your life is an adventure – not a punishment.

So when the Truth escapes you, remember to stop.  Stop and wait and listen – for the Truth exists all around you and it is within you, always ready to be tapped into.

We are here to support you, Beloved Ones!  We cannot tell you enough that you are Loved, so every day, in some way, We are going to reach out to you to help you remember the Love that Created you and the Love that you will return to.

Blessings to you.

©2016 Julia Knickerbocker  ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

 

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Allow the Light to Fill You

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

Today, as your day dawns anew and grows into another full day of activity after activity, do your best to carve out of that busy day a few moments to commune with the Creator. Perhaps your way is to get on your knees and pray.  Perhaps your way is to light a candle and do some chanting.  Mayhaps you ensconse yourself in a closed environment and meditate for hours at a time.  Really, there is no one way to reach the Creator except that one must desire to feel the touch of that which is All.

Do you feel as if you are blemished and unworthy?  Do you have doubts as to whether there really is a greater power?  Are you afraid that when you do feel the touch that you are going to be driven mad with guilt and reprisals of how you could have lived your life “better”?

Please allow me to assure you – when you truly touch the being that is the Creator you will feel nothing but Love, regardless of how you lived your life and what you may have chosen to do in it.  The Creator knows this earth plane is a difficult place to exist, but the Creator also saw every possibility of your life choices and life events before you were approved to be put here.  The Creator is not a god of human emotions – rather the Creator rises above all pettiness and only Loves.

The Creator Love everyone equally; you may console yourself that the idiot who cut you off in traffic has now created karma that will prevent him from going to heaven, but the Truth is that you will all return to whence you came.  Do not mistake acceptance for privilege, however, for that does not give you largess to live in chaos and hurt others without regard. For those actions will result in karma that will need to be cleansed at some point.

Rather, gather your self this morning, reach out to the brightest light that exists within you, and ask that you be Guided this day to do all that is in your Highest and Best Good. Your request will be heard and you will receive Guidance from your High Self, your Guardians, and your Guides.  If you pay attention, listen, and then follow through with that Guidance you can be assured that your day will be touched by the Light that Is.

When this happens, you will be given opportunities to Love those around you, to forgive others of their trespasses, to walk in the shadows without fear – bringing the Light that burns within you to chase them off.  The Love of the Creator is a blessed thing – one that few humans consciously remember, for even as the Creator reaches out during your waking hours, there are times when the Creator reaches you when you are not conscious.

These moments provide you with reprieve from the human world; they help you remember what it is to be One with those who Love you.  And when you return to your human form you feel rejuvenated, as if from a long, peaceful night’s slumber.

To be One with the Creator is to bring that Peace into your day to day activities, to bring the Love that is shared with you to Others, and to be filled with Joy for you recognize that you have been Touched by the Breath of Creation and it has filled you to capacity again, providing you with the strength to tackle another day of being human with renewed vigor.

We Angelics are here to help you understand this Love.  We are here to support you on your journey back to the Creator.  We are here, not to tell you what to do or to approve of your actions, but to be the symbol of the Creator’s Love present on the human world.  The only symbol that can provide you with a resemblance of the Love you left behind when you came into this world.

Take the support from the Angelics, from your Guides, and your Guardians and let it resonate within you this day.  Let it fill you peace and confidence in yourself, and allow it to lead you to live this day in accordance with your blueprint, with your High Self.

You are Loved and Cherished more than you know.  Allow that Love to fill you, heal you, help you grow, and provide you with resolve to do this every day in some way.  For as you fill with the Light of the Creator you are reborn with new purpose to live your life the best as can.  And no one, not even the Creator, will ever demand that you do more than that.

Blessings to you, Beloved Ones.  We are here for you, always.

Ariel

 

 

©2016 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

All there is, is Love.

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

Today is time, we felt, to relay some information to you that you might find helpful.  We ask that you allow yourself to read, take in, and meditate upon the information within this message and ask your Guides, Guardians, and your Angelics to help you process this information as is in your Highest and Best good, for some may find it controversial and We wish only to help you discover that which is your True Self.

The Creator has been given many names by humanity.  Many different groups, many different religions, many different societies and civilizations have all sought to contain the Creator and place the Creator within boundaries that were easy for them to consume, easy for people to incorporate into their lives.  Many individuals have written articles and distributed information purported to be from the Creator, but which they themselves wrote and distributed only to further their own interests.

This is indeed a trait human conditions into their young, to be self-focused instead of focused on the greater good.  It is a behavior that stems from insecurity, from greed, from feelings of lacking in worth and security as well as other feelings that are not Love-Based.

These feelings all derive from the lack of self-love which is also known as Fear.  And so these individuals, for their own purposes regardless of what they called it, created information to be used against people’s highest and best good while purporting them to be messages from God, from Allah, from the Goddess, or from whatever out of the many 1,000s of gods that have been given name throughout human history.

What the Creator wants you to know is simple – you are loved exactly as you are and there is nothing you can do that will cause the Creator to NOT love you.  You are loved knowing that the human experience is a difficult, frustrating, and very challenging one and that you are going to fall, pick yourself back up, and fall again.  The Creator knew these things before you were ever put into the human form.  The Creator knows everything that you could possibly do in your lifetime – every possibility, every choice you will ever encounter the Creator has known about before you were sent to the Human Reality.

So now we say to you – before you do anything else, before you follow any doctrine according to your religion, before you say your prayers or give thanks for your food, think for a moment about a Being so Powerful and Omnipotent that it knows every action you have ever taken, every thought you have ever had, every feeling you have ever felt, and every choice you might ever make in your lifetime and yet still loves you absolutely and completely.  ABSOLUTELY AND COMPLETELY.

The Creator is not going to punish you for living out the experiences that were seen for you to experience.  To punish you for doing an action that was known is illogical and punitive and these are things the Creator is NOT.  Why would you say your worship a God who would hate you for being the way you are, hate you for choosing to live out the gift of Free Will you were given, hate you for loving the people you love, or hate you for being born the race or religion you were born into?

Hate is not a trait of the Creator, hate is not a behavior the Creator embodies.  The Creator embodies Love and the Creator Loves all those that belong to the Creator absolutely and completely.

The Creator Loves Diversity; the Creator designed many different forms of life – many of which exist outside the human reality!  The Creator believes that different things ADD to the wonder and Love of Creation – not subtract from it!  The Creator does not judge others for being different – only humans filled with fear do that.  And the Creator loves those individuals as much as he loves those who profess to be devout.

At this time, take a moment for yourself.  Give yourself a moment of compassion and think of the numerous ways you think you are imperfect, flawed, unworthy.  And be kind to yourself and take deeply into yourself the Truth that the Creator loves you unconditionally, without boundaries, with infinite compassion.  And allow yourself to Love yourself in return.

The human lifetime is short – don’t waste your time in fear, self-hatred, hatred for those who are not you, and in worry, self-absorption, and doubt.  Embrace yourself as the Creator embraces you every day and allow yourself to feel that Love again.  Heal.  Be filled with Joy.  Allow yourself to Trust Yourself and to Listen to the Voice within you – for that Voice relays messages from the Creator.

Align yourself with Love and Compassion and reject that which is neither, for those things are unworthy of your time and attention.  Be One with the Creator and live your life to the fullest potential, always knowing that you will never lose the Love of the Creator and that when this lifetime is over you will, regardless of your choices or actions, be returned to the Creator just as loved as you are now and just as loved as you have always been since you were Created.

Love is the goal for humans to remember while they are incarnated on the Earth Plane.  Love is the only thing that matters for it is all there is.  All there is, is Love.

You are loved, and blessed.  Do not forget that, Blessed Ones.

We are here with you now and for always.  Call upon the Angelics when you need us and We will be there for you, to support and Love you through all the events and choices in your life. Call upon us for Healing and Guidance, and allow us to succor you all the days of your life.

 

©2016 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED