Greetings Beloved Ones.
Today’s message is about you and how you treat others. Sometimes, when you are having a bad day, or are scared, or are threatened, or just in a certain place in your life you don’t realize how you treat those in your life.
You control whether someone is in your life. Let’s take an example of someone who you have in your life, but your relationship is uncomfortable, maybe drama-ridden. It may be that you weigh the positives and the negatives and feel that the positives are worth someone in your life. If that is the case, it is your responsibility to accept that person entirely as you have decided to have them in your life, warts and all. You do not have the right to criticize that person for their choices or for their career or for their friends or for whatever reason you criticize them. You accept them as they are, with love, knowing that they are doing the best they can do on any given day – just as you are doing the best you can on any given day.
Let’s look inside for a moment. Look deep inside you and you will find a complex, emotional person who really has little control on the things that happen in your life. You can only control how you react. So if you are having a bad day and your 5 year old knocks over the glass with milk in it, do you really feel it is a loving thing to do to scream at them, spank them or put them in the corner, and then blame them for the rest of the night for an accident? Even if it was on purpose, this is a spiritual being who is still learning to adjust to being in a human body after only 5 years here. How many years have you been in your body?
We angelics love you – completely and without reservation. Regardless of your behavior or your choices or your actions we will always love you and we accept you as is. We want you to look at your definition of love and acceptance and see where you stand. No, we don’t ask humans to love as we do, but we do ask you to stretch yourself, to grow in Light, and to seek Love instead of conflict.
Many days you ask us for help, for guidance, for assistance. At those times, we reach out to you, to continuously send you messages of love and hope and help. Sometimes you may hear us in some fashion and other times you do not. REMEMBER – WE ARE ALWAYS WITH YOU. So if you are in a place where you cannot hear or feel us, remember you are loved and accepted by us and we will always be here to support you.
Back to those who are in your life. Only you can make a determination of whether any person needs to be present in your life. If someone is toxic and hurtful, you have the right to make the changes to remove that person from your life. If you are in a situation where you are being hurt or those you love are being hurt, you have the right to do what you can to change that situation. Just remember – acting impulsively is acting out on your feelings. Reacting is secondary to analyzing. Humans have an amazing bandwidth of emotions second to none in the universe. Sometimes you have a hard time understanding what you are feeling much less controlling your actions in response to those emotions.
We ask you to step back and analyze the situation before acting impulsively. Why, you ask? Because when you act impulsively you are not looking at the spiritual being in the body you are reacting to an emotion that body caused you to feel.
Let’s look at an example. Remember back in time to a place where you were either in school or work and the person in charge of you – teacher or supervisor – belittled you, made fun of your work, was derogatory of your efforts. Some people would strike out physically in anger in response. Again, not a best action to choose. Others will stuff all their hurt emotions inside and ignore it. That too is not a good idea. Never suppress emotions as that causes dis-ease and other issues to manifest on the physical level. It may be because of circumstances that you never get to have an emotionally satisfying response to this person, but there are ways you can process the incident and move forward by using what gifts that came with you into this world.
Who knows what kind of day this person is having. You don’t know what kind of life they have either. Stepping back and not taking personally what anyone else says to you or about you is always the first step. Don’t give your power away – not to strangers, not to friends, not to loved ones. YOU are the master of your own destiny and you need to keep your own power within your energy fields.
So, look at the source of the situation and step back and say to yourself – I respect you as a spiritual being locked into a human form. I have difficulties with this some days and I respect that you may be having difficulties with it right now. I am me and you are you and together we are both on the same journey back to the Creator. Then, ask your angels and guardians to work with that person’s angels and guardians and surround them with Light. Ask for that person to be permeated with Love and ask for them to receive that which is needed for their highest and best good. And wish them well on their path. Don’t make statements like you hope they get hit by a car and die because that kind of energy you send with that statement will only come back to you as karma.
Yes, it can be excruciatingly difficult to send Love to someone who is cruel and ugly to you, but part of each person’s path is to grow beyond the perceived limitations of their life. When you can truly SEE that it truly is not about you – how can it be? They don’t know you! – then you don’t waste your energy on feeding back into that negative energy spiral the person has around them.
Know that the person’s angels and guides are trying to help them right at that second, just as yours are helping you every minute of every day. “There but for the grace of God I go” is a powerful statement that we wish more people would incorporate into their lives. Because truly, on any given day it is the Grace you have accepted into your life that keeps you moving forward.
Accept your Grace from God, know that you are Loved and Blessed regardless of how your day is going, and share that Love with those you encounter. You don’t have to be perfect at it, but as you practice this it will get easier. And think how wonderful it will be when everyone is practicing this belief and our world transforms around us.
There, but for the Grace of God, go I.
You are loved, Beloved Ones, and you are never alone.