Seek Within to Find the Love

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

Before reading further, take a moment and close your eyes and feel the energy of love We are sending through this electronic medium to you.  Energy of all kinds are avenues for vibrations and right now, We are sending you immense waves of Love for you to receive, heal, and from which you can grow.

Many times, in many ways, and in many places during your lifetime you will be told that you need to do “something” in a particular way to achieve a particular result.  Be assured, that the Creator’s Love for you is not limited by these man-made structures, rules, dictates, or schedules.  The Creator is accessible to you at all times of the day or night and the only thing to dictate when you can receive the Love from the Creator is YOU.

Your willingness to spend time alone in meditation, to ask to receive the Love of the Creator, is all that is needed to open the door to the Creator’s Love – for that doorway exists within you and you alone can give yourself the opportunity for Communion.

We are here to assist you every day, in every way We can provide support to you.  In times as your society is experiencing right now, stress and worry can make it seem as if you are alone, yet the truth is – alone is what you want to be right now.  When you are experiencing solitude, you provide yourself with the opportunity to reach within – to feel for us and your Guides and your High Self, and to reach for the glimmer of Light that is the Creator.  The more you reach for the Creator the stronger that glimmer will become and the easier it will be for you to feel the Love that exists for you.

Once you allow yourself the opportunity to feel this unconditional Love, the worries and the fears you spend so much time on will not matter, for the energy of the Creator’s Love will balance you emotionally and mentally and provide you with the opportunity to look at all things with a fresh perspective.

We Love you, Beloved One!  We are here with you and are assisting and supporting you every day as you live and breathe on the Earth Plane.  Call upon us and ask us to assist you with whatever challenge you are facing and We will send you the vibration of Love, Support, Courage, Honesty, Integrity – and all other manner of Light Vibrations that can be used for your highest and best good.

You are not alone – but solitude is required at times to return you to a place where you are open and willing to open to the Light and the Love that is available to you every day, in every moment, so that you can reconnect with your True Self.

Blessings to you!  We Love you and are here with you!  Call upon Us and We will answer in less than a moment!

Love is the Way of All Things

Greetings Beloved Ones.

Human life is not meant to be for ever – it is meant to be an experience.  Once finished, then you return home to Us, those who Love you.  Do not despair, for even though it may seem that life is difficult and that you fail at everything, in Truth you are indeed living a glorious adventure and growing more every day for it.  Every so called “failure” is nothing more than a piece of a lesson to be learned.  Everyone has the same basic lessons and while there is flexibility on how the lesson may be experienced and definitely Free Will on how each person chooses to process the lesson, everyone has the same basic things to learn.

Love – for others and for self
Gratitude
Worthiness
Forgiveness

and so on.  These are some of the biggest of the lessons each person experiences and while you may look at others and think that their experiences not been as bad or as traumatic as yours, indeed they are experiencing exactly what they need to grow along their own life path, so what they experience does equate as traumatizing to them just as yours have been to you.

How does that feel?  To look at someone and instead of thinking they are luckier than you, to know instead that they are in the same emotionally messed up, hurt place that you are.

Does that excuse any of their behaviors towards you or others? Or, does it give you a little bit of compassion in understanding why they do what they do?  It does NOT excuse what they do – just adds understanding to the why.

Humans do not have the “right” – from birth or wealth or whatever crazy reason someone comes up with – to treat anyone else poorly.  They CHOOSE to do that – and there is reason behind why they do it, but that does not make it RIGHT.

We say these things to you because you need to know deep within you that when someone says or does something that affects you that it is not about YOU at all – it is about them, what they have experienced in their lifetime, the choices they made and then had to live with, and in the end, how much do they really hate themselves.

If each person on the planet loved themselves for 2 minutes every day the way We Angelics Love you, your reality would not be as it is right now.  It is a choice, and even if you don’t think you have the ability to make choices to the differ, indeed you do, even when it is nothing more than the choice of attitude or mindset.

Look around you.  We Love you and We Love the person who lives next door, and We Love the cashier you processed your groceries, and We Love your boss, and everyone you fear or hate.  We Love Each and All of You.  You are each precious to Us.  We Love you and you are Loved.

Think about that as you are driving on the road, cursing out people without taking two seconds to wonder if they are afraid to drive and how great their need must be to force them to do something daily that traumatizes them.

Could you do that?  Do something multiple times daily even if it scared you to death, day after day after day?  Think about your phobias.  Some people have silly ones and others could be considered life threatening.  If you had to walk out onto the ledge outside a 50 story building every day but were afraid of heights, or falling, or open spaces – could you do it?  Would you creep along, holding tightly to the edge of the building with every cell of your fingers or hands, praying to not fall?  Or would you jump and leap about thinking you were just fine and had no idea why anyone would be concerned about falling off a 4″ ledge?

This is an important part of life.  Do not mock someone because of their fears, but to understand that their fears control them, just as your fears control you.  And not – reach for the Love and Compassion that follows this understanding and share that with others. Everyone around you is the same as you; everyone has fears and everyone has a desire to be loved.

We Love you and you have the potential to Love just as many as We do.  Why not give it a try?

We are here for you, to support you and Love you.

Blessings.

 

©2017 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

 

 

Release Other’s Responsibility and Regain Your Joy

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

We are here with you, always, through all experiences, situations, trials, and challenges. We Love You and will never desert you, even if you cannot feel, see, or hear us in a moment where you are emotionally distressed.

Trust that We Love and Accept you Unconditionally, for that is the Truth.

Being human is hard; We know that.  And so, We have been allowed to share your experiences with you.  We can surround you with Love and We can share our strength and compassion with you.  We cannot live your life for you and We cannot tell you what to do, but We share your life with you in all ways.

We whisper in your mind and tell you, “You are loved.”

We place our energy around you and surround you with our Love.

We “hold” your hands and share Our love with you to provide comfort while you grieve or feel lost.

All the times you have felt alone was not because We left you, but because you shut us out unconsciously in your moments of pain.

We know you are in pain, We feel it and We hear it.  We wish We could help you feel how much you are Loved and how this lifetime is really just a moment and that while some moments need to be endured, others need to be ridden like an amusement park ride with your hands in the air, screaming with excitement.  Even when it does not seem that way.

Lately, We have been counseling some to release the illusion of responsibility for anyone but themselves.  Do not shirk your responsibilities, but do know that when someone is an adult (has hit the age of 18 human years) they are now responsible for their life choices. Offer guidance if you see fit, but it is time to shift to a place of respecting that person’s free will.

Free will is also not just for young people – it is for those who are getting old, and tired. You may have lived a long life, but it is not appropriate for you to pretend to be ill just so someone feels sad for you or comes to visit you.  It is your responsibility to live your life for yourself, every day of your life, instead of being a burden to others because you refuse to find the joy within your life.

We Love You.  We are here to help you discover, or rediscover, joy and love and laughter.  Listen for our whispers, feel for our nudges, and allow yourself to discover the activities, thoughts, and actions that once brought joy into your heart when you were young.  This life is meant to be lived, not suffered through, and We are here to help you through every inch of that adventure!

We Love You.

©2017 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

Love is the Way

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

We are always here with you, supporting you and providing you with strength during times of weakness, times of fear.  Even when your world appears turbulent and your trust in humanity seems shattered, remember that you are not alone and that Truth exists within each and every human on the Earth Plane.

There does not exist, in the human Earth plane, a singular path to follow to be able to reach the Love of the Creator.  This Love exists within each living being for each was created by the Creator, but the vast majority of those alive have never consciously felt that Love, or if they did they misunderstood what it was.

Humans have created and recreated and recreated again over millennia different forms, different processes, different rituals that promote “their way”.  If you do x and y and then eat x and not y you will achieve nirvana, you will feel Jesus, you will have “this” result.

There is no one way for all to be able to commune with Spirit, to feel the Love of the Creator.  It is not a matter of locale or background.  What matters is the person themselves.  All living creatures possess a connection to the Creator that is present regardless of what happens in life to the individual.  As a tiny child your conscious connection to the Creator is diminished so that it does not upset the Life Plan for your current life.  But it is never completely eliminated for it is what keeps you alive, it is the sustenance of All that keeps you present on the earth plane.

Let Us tell you again.  Love is the way of the Creator.  The Creator Loves each and every individual regardless of how they treat others, regardless of what they do in their lives, regardless of everything that happens around them.  Human lifetimes are short, not out of punishment, but because this is the optimal amount of time to be consciously away from the Creator, even though the option to feel the Creator’s Love is always present.

We are here with you as well, representatives of the Love the Creator has for all.  We are always present, We are always here to help you in the ways We can, the ways We are allowed.  We ALWAYS Love you – there is nothing that can be done that is able to separate Us from you.  When you feel alone, that is because you are looking outside of yourself for something – love, satisfaction, approval, etc.  We are here to help you look INSIDE – for that is where the connection to the Creator exists – WITHIN each and every individual.

There is no one “chosen people” by the Creator – the Creator Loves All.  There is no one “preferred” religious practice for many people respond well to a variety of different religions in the world.  Each person is responsible for seeking the Love of the Creator and then each person is responsible for allowing that Love vibration into their life.

Many people don’t want that, though.  Many people are afraid of what might change if they allow that energy to come into their lives, so they avoid it, they come up with reasons why they don’t feel it, why God is not real, why this or that.  All to calm the panic that happens when they feel they are going to be judged by an omnipotent being harshly and then punished for every infraction they committed.

We Angelics Love You.  The Creator Loves You.  This world, this reality, this lifetime was made just for you to have the opportunity to experience a myriad of events, sensations, and feelings.  When you return to Us, you bring that experience with you and it adds to our collective knowledge.  You are valuable even if you don’t think what you have felt or done in this lifetime was particularly spectacular. You are valuable even if you feel that your life would have been better off not lived.  Neither of the last two sentences are Truth, yet so many people feel that they are unworthy, that they are nothing to the Creator when the Truth is you are Everything.

You are the Love the Creator possesses for you. You are the hope the Creator has to experience your facet of reality.  You are the Love that is the human collective and when you are ready, the way will be shown to you on how to connect, how to commune with the Creator.  You just have to be willing to see it, feel it, and hear it.

We are always with you, Beloved Ones.  Call upon us in your time of need or weariness.  Do not lose hope for as long as there is breath there is the opportunity for change, be it of the mind or spirit.

We Love You.

Always.

©2017 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

Root Issues to Fear of Rejection and Loneliness

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

Imagine waking up in a hospital environment and looking around you.  You don’t recognize anything, you don’t know how you got there, you don’t know your own name, and you don’t know anything about yourself.  The hospital staff seem intent upon getting you up and moving, caring only about emptying the bed for someone else to be able to use it.  They don’t pay attention to the fact that you are experiencing emotional trauma from these things happening to you.  They don’t have the basis for understanding what you are experiencing, so they just follow their normal processes to get you on your way.

This is you – waking up in a human body, not recognizing anything or anyone, and not knowing you are at all.  You are now in a physical form and experiencing Separation.

After the Spiritual Presence has entered the human form, the now-human consciousness goes through the process We call “Separation”.  This process creates an illusion that the human consciousness is separate from the Creator and the state of Love which the Spiritual Presence has known all its existence.  This process is necessary for the now-human, but it is very difficult for the Spiritual Presence to go through for it is impossible to imagine the emotions that occur in the human body when all  you know is Love.

The Spiritual Presence takes a while to fully integrate with the human form; as the integration process occurs, Separation is taking place as well.  Separation allows the now-human opportunity to adapt to its new family environment by helping one to “forget” from where he or she originates.  This creates, as you say, a “blank slate” for the human personality and from which all experiences will develop.

There is a percentage of sensitive individuals who, after undergoing Separation, develop a fears through the process.  They mistakenly believe they were rejected by the Creator upon arriving in their new form.  Some even believe they were deliberately abandoned here – helpless, ignorant, and unknowing!  This is not True!  When your life plan was created and shown to you, you were ecstatic, overjoyed that you were going to be able to go the Earth Plane and experience being human!

You wanted this experience so much, yet, now you feel rejected and abandoned, leading you to an emotional place where you begin to fear rejection.  You develop a of Loneliness because you no longer connect to all that you Loved – you are alone for the first time.

These responses are understandable, as being separated from the constant Love you used to live within is hard to endure, and being alone within your mind and feelings only add complications to the human reality.

The child who is undergoing the Separation process does not have a way to articulate what he or she is experiencing. They only know that something out of their control is changing them and they experience fear.

Fear of Rejection and Fear of Abandonment and the Sense of Loneliness are common issues that can develop from the Separation process. When the small child goes through the Separation process, especially if the child is not in a nurturing environment that replaces the Creator’s love, the ache of loneliness still exists within, because the child does not have the words to share what is being experienced.

 

Many times, when a small child cries for an extended period of time, those watching the child lose patience as the child is not immediately soothed when picked up.  Very often, a child is sequestered away from physical comfort by being placed in a crib or play pen to cry alone.  As an adult, one can look back and see how loneliness and abandonment created by the Separation process becomes amplified within the child’s psyche.

Please know that We Angelics nor the Creator have rejected the child during this process. We are always present and always send our Love to the child as it goes through this process, but often when the child is going through the Separation process they are also adjusting to their new physical and the Gifts that this lifetime is providing for them to experience this human lifetime.  Often their sensitivities are dulled down to the point where they don’t always recognize Us or feel the Love We share with them.

This Separation does create a challenging circumstance to overcome, but it is one that ALL those who take on the human state must undergo to be an individual, instead of one merged with the Creator.

We want to share with you how to help yourself heal, for even as an adult – especially as an adult – you have the opportunity to help yourself overcome these emotional wounds.  This healing will allow you to move forward along your Path, stronger in the Light and Love as you live your life with a more positive perspective.

Meditation is key to healing, for when humans allow them to reach a deep meditative state it is possible for the to establish a conscious connection with Spirit and allow the process of healing these old emotional wounds to begin. Many times the individual must heal backwards from the age they currently are to eventually reach the original wound.  To do this you would use your knowledge of your current reactions and behaviors regarding feelings of rejection, abandonment, or loneliness and methodically analyze them, to reduce the sensitivity.  For each memory you hurt from, allow yourself to view the memory clinically as if watching someone else’s life.  Then, call upon Us Angelics to assist with bringing in Light and Love to help you heal the issue.

Some wounds may take multiple sessions to fully heal.  As you move backwards through your lifetime’s worth of memories, heal each wound methodically.  Don’t skip over something because you feel pain – that should be expected because you are trying to heal wounds. Instead, focus on stepping back emotionally and reaching a place of balanced emotions to do the healing work.

Do this as many times as it takes to be able to begin the healing process for the wound. Remember – you are creating Positive Change that will echo through your life as it is today because healing will modify your current energy signature.  This provides the benefit of creating more opportunity for you to develop an even deeper connection with Spirit and the Creator as well as changes in what you do, who you know, and where you live and go and a host of other options you choose.

As you make the effort to do this healing work call upon Us, please!  We Love you and We want to help you heal as much as We can.  Emotional wounds that have been buried and repressed still hurt when they are uncovered.  So when you call upon Us, We can help by supplying Love to soothe those wounds and provide you with a buffer to maintain a more distant view of the situation.  We can help you heal your wounds this way as you heal from a place of Wisdom.  Wisdom was not always available to you as you went through the circumstances that caused the wounds.  Many times you had no basis for comprehension of the situation as it occurred.  Time spent and experiences undergone award Wisdom throughout your life.  It is necessary to understand why wounds happen to the understanding of how to heal those wounds when you are ready to move forward.

It may seem a simple thing, and you may originally think you don’t need help to just get rid of old wounds, but there are many emotions that are attached to each memory and if you don’t prepare yourself you can get lost within those emotions again.  Call upon Us – We are here to help you through this process – it is part of what We can do for you.

You may wonder why you should do this – it could take a long time to heal all these wounds?  As you heal, you are allowing yourself to release these self-limiting beliefs that have been unconsciously driving your life situations as well as your free will choices. Responding to situations with a knee jerk reaction developed from a base of rejection, abandonment, and loneliness is not the way to move forward in your life.  You will only continue to experience these issues as your High Self is driving you to heal your wounds.

What kind of opportunities have you passed up or stepped away from because internally your fear of rejection and abandonment kept you from putting yourself out there and kept you from bringing the spotlight into your life?

What about when you self-limited your relationships because you were afraid you might get hurt?

What about employment opportunities and promotions that you turned away from because you were afraid you were not good enough and you would be found out as a fraud?

Have you thought about all the dreams you turned away from because you thought you might not be as good as someone else?  or that you were afraid to be scrutinized closely and your flaws and “failures” that helped you grow would be mocked?

Fear prevents humans from doing everything joyfully and with love.

People stay locked into their bodies and shut away from those they love out of fear of rejection and abandonment.

People who live their lives from a basis of fear are creating lives based in fear. 

Stop being afraid.  Allow Us to help you heal.  Allow Us to help you gather your strength to say “no more” and grab that shovel to dig deep.

You were a tiny child when these fears were instilled within you.  You have lived your entire life with this program running in your background, dictating what you do, what opportunities you accept, and who you have in your life.  Allow yourself to see what your life could be like and take Our help – We want to help you because all that you can be, for We Love you unconditionally.  We can see all that you can become and We know what will make  you happy, joyful, and content.  The process will be difficult, but you will not be alone when you invite the Angelics who Love you in to help you.

We are here for you.

We want to help you.

But first, you have to gather your courage to allow yourself to ask for Our help.

We are here.  Waiting for you.  Whenever you are ready – there is no time limit to when you can start this – We will eagerly help you move forward.  We will hold your hands along the way, We will give you Love and We will support you with the energy to overcome all obstacles in your way.

When you are ready, We are here for you.

We Love you, unconditionally, in All Ways.

We will always be with you. We will never leave your side.

We Love You.

Blessings to you, Beloved Ones.

 

 

 

©2016 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

 

 

 

Regaining and Living Your Free Will

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

Behind the kindest eyes, evil can lurk.  Behind the sweetest words, deviance can hide. Behind what you want to label as “truth” lies the darkest secret of all – that you are giving to others your power.  Giving your power to those who don’t love you, don’t care about you, don’t care what happens to you, and most of all they don’t care if you live or die.

This may seem a bit dramatic, but We wanted to make it dramatic to get your attention. We would like you to Think.

To think – to whom have you given your power?

You may not realize it, but even in little day-to-day decisions when you allow someone else to tell you what to do and you follow without protest, you are giving away your free will, your innate power of your right to choose.

Perhaps you do it to keep the peace, perhaps because you feel if you rock the boat nastiness will follow, or perhaps it is because you are afraid that if you follow what you feel that you won’t know what will happen, and so that fear keeps you locked into a place of perpetual fear and isolation, hesitant to make any decision that could cause change to happen in your life.

Maybe you don’t think that these little decisions really mean anything.  But We want you to know that every time you stuff your thoughts, opinions, and beliefs down you are creating opportunity for dis-ease, illness, ill thoughts, and self-hatred within yourself.

We don’t want that for you.  We don’t want that for any human living on the planet.  But all too often We watch you, the Ones We Love, make decisions to deny yourself the opportunity to be all that you are.  You negate the wonderfulness that you are by allowing others to impose their beliefs upon you.

There may be times when you make a choice that causes a negative reaction – a “mistake”, but these are learning opportunities and should not be considered the mark of a deficient person.

You deserve to have more wonderfulness in your life.  You may think We mean objects and possessions, but We don’t.  We want you to brim over with all the Light and Love you are truly capable of possessing, of sharing with those around you, but which you turn your back on every time you allow someone else to own your power.

You are WONDERFUL!  We Love you absolutely and completely and there is absolutely NOTHING you can do that will make Us turn our backs on you.  Don’t worry about making a “wrong” choice, don’t worry about not “living to your potential”, and most of all, don’t worry about whether others think you are worthy.

You are worthy!  You are Loved!  You are a Wonderful human being.  And We want you to know this – and to know that We are with you, every step of the way.  You can change your life for the better, you can bring in and take in more Light and Love you might think possible – all with just taking your power back, little by little.

Look at your life closely – what makes you unhappy?  Your job you feel locked into?  Your career path?  Your relationships?  Your familial relations?  When you feel helpless and victimized this is an indicator that you are abdicating your power to someone else.

And that someone else does not Love you – regardless of what he or she says, that person does not love you, for they are putting you into a box and labeling you with terms like, “stupid” or “dumb” or “ignorant” even if they don’t say them out loud to you.  Because they are telling you tacitly or out loud that you don’t know what is best for you, that you don’t how to make a “good” decision, that what you choose is unworthy of their time and energy.

Some things you will find easy to change.  End conversations with those who monopolize your time yet don’t allow you the same opportunity to share.  Walk away from conversations with people who want you to feel sorry for them and they want you to take on their burdens, even though those burdens have nothing to do with you.  Look around you, look at the people in your life, and realize you can make a positive change for yourself, today, but taking back your power little bit by little bit.

Is there someone who hangs around you at work, preventing you from getting your job done because they want to chat about their day, last night, what they watched on TV…regardless of the topic they are taking up your valuable time and making you a prisoner at your own place.  Ask them to leave, put on a headset and focus on work you need to do – and allow yourself to grow your own self esteem by taking back your power with this one small step.  You deserve to take care of YOU and no one will do it like you will.

You are not alone – you are NEVER alone!  We are here with you, supporting you every step of the way.  Things may be a little rocky once you start making changes, but hold onto the Truth that WE LOVE YOU and YOU DESERVE to make whatever change you want to make in your life.

Some people stay in places because they think they are getting “compensation” to buffer their feelings of self-worth.  There is nothing that is worth your own regard of yourself.  You deserve to love yourself and there is nothing anyone can give you that will supplement the lack of self-worth you possess because you have taken something to “compensate” your giving up your voice, your power, your free will.

We are reaching out to you, for you are reading this in this moment.  Allow Us to come in and commune with you in this second.  Allow Us to flood you with the Love We have for you, and let Us strengthen your resolve so you can make the decisions that need to be made, regardless of how “hard” they may seem to be.

Have you given and given and given so much that everyone takes you for granted?  Are you the first person people think of when something bad happens?  This is not because you are kind natured – it is because they can dump their unhappiness upon you.  Look at how often you are imposed upon, whether it is to work late, bring an extra dish for the potluck, to pick someone up so they have a ride, do your children’s chores around the house because they have to do “something” else, or even help someone out with their finances.

These may seem like natural things to do for those you work with or those in your family.  In truth, these people are expecting you to do what they don’t want to do.  They don’t want to utilize time management skills, they don’t want to step up and accept responsibility for miscalculating, so they use you instead to cover for their mistakes or just for their sheer laziness.  Sometimes it is just family members who stuck you in a box a long time ago and refuse to see that you are an independent person and not their tool to use whenever they want to, with the excuse that “family” should come first.

NO – YOU come first!  If you don’t take care of yourself, no one else will!

There are so many ways We see those we Love being used and abused by others that We love.  Those others who would walk all over them, those others who enjoy stealing someone else’s power just so they don’t have to use their own resources.

Be strong; We know you can be, and push back these requests one by one.  You don’t have to change your whole world in one day, but you can change it over time by making one choice after another to HONOR YOU, to do for yourself what others would have you do for them, and most of all, by taking back your power from others and putting that energy into your own life.

We know you may feel hesitant or even afraid to look at the situations in your life like this. Look at where you can make the first choice and follow through on what you want to do, consistently and patiently.  It will take others time to realize you are serious.  They will want to fall back into their pattern of making you take on their responsibility by abdicating your power to them, and they will test your resolve time after time.

Stay strong and be consistent.  Don’t waver, don’t give in “just this one time” because that one time is one time too many for you to give away your personal power.  Refusing to participate in the situation and take back your power by giving yourself the chance to do what you need to do.

Does your aunt need you to take her to the store but it is not a good time for you?  Don’t allow anyone to badger you into doing something for them that hurts you.  If someone truly cared about you, they would work cooperatively with you for you both to achieve what needs to be done.  They would not demand you drop everything for them nor would they tell you that they are more important than you are.

Maybe this is the first time you ever considered this action to have a choice.  Wonderful! You are now growing by looking and analyzing situations and seeing how they are Good for you.  Keep doing it! Analyze every request, every demand, every action that others take for granted that you will do and start making changes in your life.

Don’t allow your children to walk all over you and expect you to do everything.  There is no such thing as a “super parent” but there are parents who raise children with entitled attitudes.  This does not serve your children at all, for in the future they will have to learn the hard lesson that they alone are the one responsible for feeding, clothing, and housing themselves.  What will happen to them when you are no longer able to give them everything they desire?

For those relatives who demand you do everything for them, start practicing saying “no” in the mirror.  Practice makes perfect.  We are with you and We will support you entirely. For those who have co-workers who want you to drop your work to help them do theirs, don’t.  You deserve recognition for the work you do and if someone else gets the praise for work you did then you are not serving you, your co-worker, or your employer.

You are special and unique and We Love you and want you to grow to Love yourself unconditionally as well.

Be strong.  Be authentic.  Be transparent in all you do, for when you live a life of complete honesty that which is inherent within you, your Divine Presence, shall shine forth and greet the Divine Presence in those around you as well.  You are each individual on the Human Plane, but when you are returned to the Spiritual Plane you will remember that you all are One.

Respect that; together but separate.  Each worthy of living this lifetime to the best of your abilities with your free will choices.  Trust that regardless of the situation, when you live openly and honestly you will attract those into your life who live the same way and your life situations will change to reflect that honesty as well. For each deserves to live and be loved and to grow and to change.  No one should stagnate when you have a world of experiences to be had!

We are with you!  We love you and We are always here – with you and supporting you.  Call upon Us when you need Us and We will be with you in an instant.

Blessings to you.

©2016 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

Knowledge and Wisdom lead to Trust

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

There are many instances of emotional pain that one lives while in human form.  Starting from a small child until the day you pass, you have many opportunities to experience situations that hurt your feelings in a myriad of ways.  Taking the pain you feel in these situations (instead of focusing on the pain) and allowing your perspective to shift to one of knowledge is very important, and one you may not have learned from your parents while growing up.

When you are a child, you do not have the emotional maturity to understand that people make mistakes and sometimes those mistakes lead to others’ feelings being hurt.  As you experience yourself making the same type of mistake and thus you have the opportunity to develop Wisdom.

We acknowledge the pain you felt during the experience and We tried to support you as best possible, and as appropriate.  Eventually you will experience situations where you hurt others’ feelings instead of yours being the hurt feelings.  Would it not be more conducive to your life to be able to look at a situation from a perspective where you can admit everyone is human, no one is perfect, and thus everyone can and will make mistakes that hurt others.  Knowledge comes from being able to look at experiences where you have experienced pain and acknowledge that your position, your side of the situation is not the only one, and you make an effort to understand the other person’s position.

When you allow that other humans have the same right as you do to have hurt feelings and act upon those hurt feelings, you can then develop compassion for them.  You do not have to allow others to hurt you repeatedly just because you can understand their position or mindset.  You are always responsible for your life and you are the one who makes your Free Will choices.

Being a ‘doormat’ for someone else to abuse emotionally, mentally, or physically is not a position We would choose for you to experience, but We cannot stop you if this is your choice.  Allowing someone to abuse you, even if you see their perspective, is not healthy for you.  The goal is to recognize with compassion that someone else may be hurting or they may not have the emotional maturity to understand that their behavior hurts others and then take appropriate steps to take care of yourself, physically, mentally, and emotionally.

A calm (if possible) conversation with the individual who hurt your feelings to ask them why they did the actions that hurt you is an excellent way to start.  That person may already regret what he/she did and is only looking out for a way to express their apology to you.  This is the ‘best case scenario’ and will allow you to both express your feelings and the mindset you each had when entering into the situation to begin with.  Sharing can lead to mutual respect and a commitment to act differently if and when a similar situation arises.

Often the best case scenario is not the one that is experienced.  Many humans choose to be reactionary and to blame others’ when the person shares that he or she had hurt their feelings.  It is best to recognize that this person is emotionally immature, either because they were raised in this manner and not taught to grow this aspect of themselves, or because they choose to stay this way instead of maturing for whatever purpose they feel benefits them.

It is also a sad fact that many people are unable to find the joy in being human, and develop behavioral patterns that are unhealthy to themselves and those around them. This is where the Knowledge you have gained about the person becomes Wisdom as you apply it to your interactions with this person.  Just as you would look at a situation where you were the adult caring for a child and being responsible for keeping them safe, you should look at the interactions you have with people who hurt your feelings and recognize how you can keep yourself safe.

As you grow and develop your own emotional maturity, others’ opinions and thoughts will have minimal to no impact upon you, as you have become and individual who loves yourself and takes care of yourself in a healthy way, regardless of others’ whims and behaviors.  Scientists perform test after test to verify that the results will be the same and this is considered to be logical. They do the scientific test and the result is the same when the same situation is repeated.

You can do the same application of logic towards your emotional health and welfare.  You step back and analyze the person’s behavior and you take appropriate steps to protect yourself.

An example.  You have a friend who is fun to go out with, but once she has consumed a few glasses of wine, her behavior changes and she becomes rude to those around her.  She lashes out at her friends and says hurtful things which ruins the evening for everyone. The next day she says it was ‘the wine’ talking and that she did not mean what she said.

The next time you have an interaction with her and she drinks, what you observe will provide you with Knowledge about her behavior.  If her behavior is the same, then you have gained in Knowledge that your friend chooses to drink alcohol even though she knows she says hurtful things to others when she drinks.  This is Knowledge in action.  If the person (Y) drinks (X) and the behavior is always (C) then Y+X=C.  If you remove X and the person behaves in a manner consistent with Y, then you know her ugly words and actions come from her taking in X.

The Wise thing for you to do now and in the future if you continue to want to associate with her is to avoid situations where she has access to alcoholic beverages, or the social situations take place alcohol is not present.  Thus no one is subjected to her ugliness and rudeness because she has not drank.  She has refused to take responsibility for her behavior and so now you create the environment that will protect you.

This is a simple situation.  We realize that the human experience can and will throw things more complex your way; if you remember this situation and apply the X and the Y and the Z to your situation, it will help remove emotions from the situation and allow you to examine what took place, thus you will gain Knowledge.  Wisdom is the act of applying your Knowledge to situations.  Individual personalities will vary as will backgrounds, but when you use Knowledge to build your life you can eliminate unnecessary situations that hurt your feelings.

We know, if only life were this simple.  The most significant part of all interactions between two people is whether you have matured emotionally.  Emotional Maturity is similar to physical maturity.  As you grow older physically, your body develops from that of a baby to an adult. At the same time, your emotional capacity and understanding should grow from that of a baby to an adult.  As you grow emotionally and develop Knowledge and Wisdom along the way, you will discover Trust.

Many situations you will have zero control over in your life.  As a child you are subject to the vagaries of your parents. You cannot stop them from their chosen actions, but you can learn from them.  As you become an adult, you then experience your own life situations which provide you with Knowledge and Wisdom.  Knowledge and Wisdom allows you to understand that all things take place as lessons to help you grow, for that is the True purpose behind your human existence.

You may be wracked with regret and shame for your past actions, but it is up to you to review those situations with the eye of Knowledge.  Put your understanding of X+Y=Z into reviewing your past and develop your Knowledge of Self.  Use Wisdom to accept your past behaviors where you hurt others, and allow yourself to see who truly you were in that part of your life.  You are the only person responsible for your actions and non-actions. Wisdom will allow you to use those past situations of shame and regret to grow emotionally in new ways. Remove your feelings from the situations and look clinically at what you have done and why you did them.

Knowledge will also lead you to determine what behaviors you currently exhibit that are hurting those around you. No human is perfect, and as a result of that imperfection all humans hurt other people’s feelings.  Review each incident as the scientist who can say
X +Y+ Z. Wisdom will help you accept those current behaviors and assist you with changing them to where you don’t hurt others.

You can, however, choose to stay stuck in the adolescent phase and not take responsibility for your actions and how you hurt others.  This too, is a choice you have the ability to make. We Angelics will still Love you.  Those around you may not, but We will always Love you and We respect your Free Will choices.

When you review past situations where your feelings were hurt, Beloved Ones, for that is what emotional maturity will help you do, and you look at these experiences from the perspective that what the person did had nothing to do with you, and that their behavior is the result of their Free Will choices, then that perspective will shift to Trust.  Trust occurs when you realize that all things happen for a reason, even if you cannot see the reason clearly, at that point in time or even at all.

Many things are taken into consideration by the Creator when your Life Plan is reviewed. Every experience you will ever have has already been seen by the Creator as well as every choice you could ever make.  When you realize that this is So, then you can develop your Trust that there is nothing that falls outside of the Plan.

For those individuals who say, “It is God’s Will that X happened” to sooth over a negative situation, We Angelics say to you the Creator reviewed all that can happen and your life experience was approved.  The Creator does not prevent anyone from hurt or pain because then a major growth impetus would be removed and stagnation would occur.  The better way to say it is, “The Creator approved your experiences to happen”.

Part of each experience is an opportunity for you to learn to love yourself and to value yourself.  While not every scenario is in your control, how you react to it is.  How you react and how you is always your Free Will.  Now it is up to you to use your Free Will and decide how you are going to live your life which is the way it is because your choices from your experiences.

It is never too late to grow.  We Angelics are here, and We will support you always.  We Love you Unconditionally for We know the bright, loving being that you are when you are in True Form and We see the experiences you have here on the Earth Plane.  You are Loved and Valued even when you don’t Love and Value yourself.

Blessings to you, Beloved Ones.

 

 

 

©2016 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

 

When the Truth Escapes You

Greetings Beloved Ones,

Today is a beautiful day here in the adventure of your life!  We Angelics can only watch in wonder as humans live their day to day lives, learning and growing in your world, becoming for a short time, a Presence all unto yourself until the time you return to Spirit.

Humans have a difficult time with the Separation from Spirit and because of the nature of your adventure here on the Earth Plane, you are made to forget the First Truth – that you are a Spiritual Presence and that this experience is a blink of the eye and soon you will be back with Us, back to where you Belong.

We want to tell you that despair and sickness and illness are mighty weights upon the shoulders of humans, but it is part of being human.  To avoid death at all costs is not possible regardless of what improvements your science has.  Everyone returns to Spirit and it is not a bad thing, for you are returning to a place of Love where you belong and are Loved Unconditionally.

But this is why the First Truth exists – because if you knew where you came from with absolute certainty you would never be able to have the journey you are having there.  In the Beginning, when the Creator made your world and made the first of humanity the First Truth was not put into place.  Those who came down went through the Separation process, but remembering who they were and where they came from was a terrible burden, for they could not feel the Love as humans.  Many returned to Spirit after just a short time, so the First Truth was put into place to allow the Spiritual Presences there to have their adventure, their experiences.

There area number of Truths that exist about your reality that you don’t know at this time. And as with the First Truth, they were put into place for a reason.  But there is a Truth that should be obvious to all when you gaze around your planet.

The Creator LOVES Diversity.  The Creator made thousands of different plants and animals, the same but different.  They serve purposes and have their time there on the planet, but there are so many different types of animals and plants because the Creator LOVES Diversity.  If everything was the same there would not be anything new or different to experience.

Such as it is with the Human Race.  The basics are all the same, but there are small differences because the Creator LOVES Diversity.  Cultures and Societies have risen and fallen during the history of the Earth Plane.  Some based upon beliefs and some based upon wealth and some based upon pigmentation.

The Creator Loves Each Human Absolutely and Completely.  The Creator will not tell you how to live the short life you have on this planet for the Creator has seen every nuance of every experience and decision you could make there.  Every lifetime was reviewed completely prior to the Creator’s approval to become human.  Regardless of the actions taken, regardless of the pain inflicted, regardless of what your human religions have labeled as “sin” to attempt to corral humans into particular behaviors the Creator Loves Each Human Absolutely and Completely.

We try to help you feel the Love that you have Separated from temporarily, to sustain you and give you strength, to help you realize you are not alone and that you are LOVED.  But much beyond that We cannot interfere with your experiences there.  Please know that each of you has a team working with you, supporting you, loving you unconditionally and you are NEVER ALONE.

The simple Truth of your existence is to experience reality without the Love you feel when you are back with Us, back with Spirit.  There is no judgement placed upon what you do on the Earth plane, though there is hope that you learn and grow.

But it is easy for you to not look within, to not look to the Love and Support that flows through you daily.  It is easy for you to forget that diversity is the desire of the Creator. That each human is loved unconditionally.  That you all come from the same place, are truly not separated from each other on the planet, and that your life is an adventure – not a punishment.

So when the Truth escapes you, remember to stop.  Stop and wait and listen – for the Truth exists all around you and it is within you, always ready to be tapped into.

We are here to support you, Beloved Ones!  We cannot tell you enough that you are Loved, so every day, in some way, We are going to reach out to you to help you remember the Love that Created you and the Love that you will return to.

Blessings to you.

©2016 Julia Knickerbocker  ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

 

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Allow the Light to Fill You

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

Today, as your day dawns anew and grows into another full day of activity after activity, do your best to carve out of that busy day a few moments to commune with the Creator. Perhaps your way is to get on your knees and pray.  Perhaps your way is to light a candle and do some chanting.  Mayhaps you ensconse yourself in a closed environment and meditate for hours at a time.  Really, there is no one way to reach the Creator except that one must desire to feel the touch of that which is All.

Do you feel as if you are blemished and unworthy?  Do you have doubts as to whether there really is a greater power?  Are you afraid that when you do feel the touch that you are going to be driven mad with guilt and reprisals of how you could have lived your life “better”?

Please allow me to assure you – when you truly touch the being that is the Creator you will feel nothing but Love, regardless of how you lived your life and what you may have chosen to do in it.  The Creator knows this earth plane is a difficult place to exist, but the Creator also saw every possibility of your life choices and life events before you were approved to be put here.  The Creator is not a god of human emotions – rather the Creator rises above all pettiness and only Loves.

The Creator Love everyone equally; you may console yourself that the idiot who cut you off in traffic has now created karma that will prevent him from going to heaven, but the Truth is that you will all return to whence you came.  Do not mistake acceptance for privilege, however, for that does not give you largess to live in chaos and hurt others without regard. For those actions will result in karma that will need to be cleansed at some point.

Rather, gather your self this morning, reach out to the brightest light that exists within you, and ask that you be Guided this day to do all that is in your Highest and Best Good. Your request will be heard and you will receive Guidance from your High Self, your Guardians, and your Guides.  If you pay attention, listen, and then follow through with that Guidance you can be assured that your day will be touched by the Light that Is.

When this happens, you will be given opportunities to Love those around you, to forgive others of their trespasses, to walk in the shadows without fear – bringing the Light that burns within you to chase them off.  The Love of the Creator is a blessed thing – one that few humans consciously remember, for even as the Creator reaches out during your waking hours, there are times when the Creator reaches you when you are not conscious.

These moments provide you with reprieve from the human world; they help you remember what it is to be One with those who Love you.  And when you return to your human form you feel rejuvenated, as if from a long, peaceful night’s slumber.

To be One with the Creator is to bring that Peace into your day to day activities, to bring the Love that is shared with you to Others, and to be filled with Joy for you recognize that you have been Touched by the Breath of Creation and it has filled you to capacity again, providing you with the strength to tackle another day of being human with renewed vigor.

We Angelics are here to help you understand this Love.  We are here to support you on your journey back to the Creator.  We are here, not to tell you what to do or to approve of your actions, but to be the symbol of the Creator’s Love present on the human world.  The only symbol that can provide you with a resemblance of the Love you left behind when you came into this world.

Take the support from the Angelics, from your Guides, and your Guardians and let it resonate within you this day.  Let it fill you peace and confidence in yourself, and allow it to lead you to live this day in accordance with your blueprint, with your High Self.

You are Loved and Cherished more than you know.  Allow that Love to fill you, heal you, help you grow, and provide you with resolve to do this every day in some way.  For as you fill with the Light of the Creator you are reborn with new purpose to live your life the best as can.  And no one, not even the Creator, will ever demand that you do more than that.

Blessings to you, Beloved Ones.  We are here for you, always.

Ariel

 

 

©2016 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

All there is, is Love.

Greetings, Beloved Ones.

Today is time, we felt, to relay some information to you that you might find helpful.  We ask that you allow yourself to read, take in, and meditate upon the information within this message and ask your Guides, Guardians, and your Angelics to help you process this information as is in your Highest and Best good, for some may find it controversial and We wish only to help you discover that which is your True Self.

The Creator has been given many names by humanity.  Many different groups, many different religions, many different societies and civilizations have all sought to contain the Creator and place the Creator within boundaries that were easy for them to consume, easy for people to incorporate into their lives.  Many individuals have written articles and distributed information purported to be from the Creator, but which they themselves wrote and distributed only to further their own interests.

This is indeed a trait human conditions into their young, to be self-focused instead of focused on the greater good.  It is a behavior that stems from insecurity, from greed, from feelings of lacking in worth and security as well as other feelings that are not Love-Based.

These feelings all derive from the lack of self-love which is also known as Fear.  And so these individuals, for their own purposes regardless of what they called it, created information to be used against people’s highest and best good while purporting them to be messages from God, from Allah, from the Goddess, or from whatever out of the many 1,000s of gods that have been given name throughout human history.

What the Creator wants you to know is simple – you are loved exactly as you are and there is nothing you can do that will cause the Creator to NOT love you.  You are loved knowing that the human experience is a difficult, frustrating, and very challenging one and that you are going to fall, pick yourself back up, and fall again.  The Creator knew these things before you were ever put into the human form.  The Creator knows everything that you could possibly do in your lifetime – every possibility, every choice you will ever encounter the Creator has known about before you were sent to the Human Reality.

So now we say to you – before you do anything else, before you follow any doctrine according to your religion, before you say your prayers or give thanks for your food, think for a moment about a Being so Powerful and Omnipotent that it knows every action you have ever taken, every thought you have ever had, every feeling you have ever felt, and every choice you might ever make in your lifetime and yet still loves you absolutely and completely.  ABSOLUTELY AND COMPLETELY.

The Creator is not going to punish you for living out the experiences that were seen for you to experience.  To punish you for doing an action that was known is illogical and punitive and these are things the Creator is NOT.  Why would you say your worship a God who would hate you for being the way you are, hate you for choosing to live out the gift of Free Will you were given, hate you for loving the people you love, or hate you for being born the race or religion you were born into?

Hate is not a trait of the Creator, hate is not a behavior the Creator embodies.  The Creator embodies Love and the Creator Loves all those that belong to the Creator absolutely and completely.

The Creator Loves Diversity; the Creator designed many different forms of life – many of which exist outside the human reality!  The Creator believes that different things ADD to the wonder and Love of Creation – not subtract from it!  The Creator does not judge others for being different – only humans filled with fear do that.  And the Creator loves those individuals as much as he loves those who profess to be devout.

At this time, take a moment for yourself.  Give yourself a moment of compassion and think of the numerous ways you think you are imperfect, flawed, unworthy.  And be kind to yourself and take deeply into yourself the Truth that the Creator loves you unconditionally, without boundaries, with infinite compassion.  And allow yourself to Love yourself in return.

The human lifetime is short – don’t waste your time in fear, self-hatred, hatred for those who are not you, and in worry, self-absorption, and doubt.  Embrace yourself as the Creator embraces you every day and allow yourself to feel that Love again.  Heal.  Be filled with Joy.  Allow yourself to Trust Yourself and to Listen to the Voice within you – for that Voice relays messages from the Creator.

Align yourself with Love and Compassion and reject that which is neither, for those things are unworthy of your time and attention.  Be One with the Creator and live your life to the fullest potential, always knowing that you will never lose the Love of the Creator and that when this lifetime is over you will, regardless of your choices or actions, be returned to the Creator just as loved as you are now and just as loved as you have always been since you were Created.

Love is the goal for humans to remember while they are incarnated on the Earth Plane.  Love is the only thing that matters for it is all there is.  All there is, is Love.

You are loved, and blessed.  Do not forget that, Blessed Ones.

We are here with you now and for always.  Call upon the Angelics when you need us and We will be there for you, to support and Love you through all the events and choices in your life. Call upon us for Healing and Guidance, and allow us to succor you all the days of your life.

 

©2016 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED